In rural areas, singles often face the dilemma of their later life, which makes people lament the transience and impermanence of life. They are in the prime of life, why are they still alone in their old age?For the sake of this universal social problem, let's pay attention to the life of the elderly and praise and support these silent singles.
The term singles usually refers to those men who are not married, although female singles also exist, but in smaller numbers. Factors such as poor family background, physical disability, and ordinary appearance may cause them to be unable to find a marriage partner, or even be single for life. When they were young, singles worked hard to make a living, they enjoyed freedom and independence, and the whole family was not hungry and unsupervised, which made them feel that it was good to be single. However, as time goes by, as the body ages in their fifties and sixties, they begin to feel empty inside. Looking back, I found that my peers had already started a family, started a family, and even had fun holding their grandchildren. In stark contrast, they are still languishing in loneliness and helplessness. They have lost the company of their families and the care of their friends. Especially on holidays, watching other people's families warm and happy, while they are lonely and lonely, they spend every day alone except for work. This great sense of loneliness makes them miserable mentally. They crave the companionship and care of others, but they don't get it. After a long period of loneliness and depression, they finally chose to leave this world.
The second reason is the lack of regularity in their lives. Since there is no one to restrain them, they have long indulged in self-indulgence, and tobacco and alcohol have become their spiritual sustenance. They have no regular daily routine, they eat at will when they are hungry, and they sleep deeply when they are full, no matter how big or small the affairs of the family, as long as there is wine to drink, they will go in advance. I have a cousin who is a typical example, he was talented when he was young, and many people introduced him to girlfriends, but he never accepted it, because he felt that he was comfortable and uninhibited. When I was in my thirties, I wanted to fall in love, but I no longer had the opportunity. Subsequently, I often saw him drunk, but no one cared about him. On one occasion he drank too much on his way home and fell into a ditch, only to be found dead for two days shortly after. Therefore, many of the singles in the countryside passed away at the age of 50-60, not because they were unhealthy or seriously ill, but because they did not cherish and care for themselves, and eventually self-destructed.
There is a large phenomenon of singles in rural areas, and about 30 million men in rural areas of our country are single. This is a huge group that deserves great attention from the society, paying more attention to their living conditions and caring for their physical and mental health. We should help them get out of loneliness and hardship, so that they can live a meaningful life and create more value for society. At the same time, it also reminds those young people not to only care about the happiness of singleness in front of them, once they get old, the unbearable loneliness, loneliness and regret will be enveloped around them.
This phenomenon is widespread in rural areas and has a high degree of concern. Similar incidents occur from time to time, and there may not be obvious repercussions on the Internet, but they have always been the focus of attention of the elderly group. The problem of rural pension is closely related to the problem of singles, and both are serious challenges faced by rural society. This problem has an important impact on society, not only in rural areas, but also in the process of ageing. At the same time, the problem of singleness in rural areas is also closely related to the rural revitalization strategy at the national level and is related to the future development of rural areas.
From a lonely and short life, to the irregularity of life and neglect of oneself, the plight of rural singles is worth pondering. They need care and companionship, and society should pay attention to their living conditions, provide more care and support at the policy level, and create more opportunities and possibilities for them. Each of us should also care more about the single-minded elders around us, give them love and companionship, and change their lives so that they can live with dignity and happiness in their old age.
Finally, let's think about how to solve this problem from both the individual and social levels, so as to bring more warmth and happiness to the rural singles in their old age. What do you think about the plight of rural singles?Do you have any suggestions?Let us participate and discuss together and contribute our strength to improving the problem of singles in rural areas.