If you really cultivate, you will encounter adversity, just like sludge is not a curse for the lotus, but a blessing. Just like a cocoon is not a hindrance to a butterfly, but a boost.
Every difficulty and obstacle is, in fact, a hidden blessing and a great love from God. It's up to you to face it with a smile or a cry.
If you face it realistically, you will be able to solve all your problems!
Q1: Is it necessary to recover what has been lost?
What you have lost, in fact, has never really belonged to you, so you don't have to regret it, let alone recover it. There's nothing you can do about what doesn't belong to you, and no matter how much you give, it's just going to be useless. There is a saying: "Tea is just two postures, floating and sinking; Tea drinkers are only in two positions, pick up and put down. Life is like tea, calm when sinking, indifferent when floating, and you need to be able to put it down if you can afford it. ”
Second question: Life is too tiring, how can I cope with it easily?
Life is too tiring, half from life, half from desire and comparison.
All the pain, all the troubles, all the sorrows, all the tiredness of the heart, all come from endless desires, endless comparisons, and endless struggles.
Those past gains and losses, victories and defeats, joys and sorrows, always make it difficult for us to let go.
If you want to live without getting tired, you have to compare less; If you want to live without being bored, you have to worry less; If you want to live without worry, you have to be less extravagant, go with the flow, and live a fulfilling life.
Q3: How should we grasp yesterday and today?
The past is unattainable, the future is unattainable, and the present is unattainable. If you truly realize the Tao, you will have no concept of time.
As soon as we say the future, it has become the present, and when we say the present, it has become the past. This phenomenon is unattainable, as is all feelings, perceptions.
Live in the moment! Accept everything in the moment with joy, and everything in the present moment is the best arrangement of fate. Don't mess with your heart, don't get stuck in love. Don't be afraid of the future, don't think of the past. Live in the moment, so, well.
Question 4: How do you treat yourself and others on the path of cultivation?
Be kind to yourself, because life is not long; Be kind to the people around you, because you may not be able to meet in the next life!
Life is earned by yourself, and you better not look forward to other people's rewards. If you ask for a few things, you have to wipe out some souls.
Eat when you're hungry, no one will give you bread. Go to bed when you're sleepy, no one will stay up late with you. When you are tired, cry loudly, no one will give you a hug.
True wisdom is to accept oneself, tolerate others, and not distinguish between the outside and the internal antagonism; Don't fight with the sky, don't fight with others, and don't make trouble with yourself.
Five questions, how to interpret politeness and get along with others?
Thank you to the people who were nice to you, they could have been nice to you. Forgive people who have treated you badly, they could have treated you even worse.
Gratitude is a kind of cultivation. Forgiveness is a kind of cultivation. Be a cultivated person and cultivate for a valuable life.
Those who should come will come naturally, and those who will leave will not be able to stay. Don't go against your heart, don't deliberately, don't care too much, let go of obsession, and follow fate is the best life.
Q6: How do you balance happiness and sadness?
Happiness and sorrow are one, there is no difference, but the needs of sentient beings are different, useful, happy when you get it, sad when you lose it, it's just a need, you don't have to be attached to it. There is no joy or sorrow, but happiness and sorrow only exist in your heart.
Question 7: How can we be down-to-earth in our practice?
Clench your fists, your hands are empty; Stretch out your palms and you have the whole world.
As long as your feet are still on the ground, don't take yourself lightly, and as long as you live on earth, don't think too much of yourself.
Question 8: Some people say that love will be diluted by time, is that true?
All the ways of doing things are all the harmony of causes and conditions, and when they arise, they are all gone, and nothing else.
Love does not exist, just a kind of fate, the length of the fate of love lies in the fact that two people tolerate each other, understand each other, grow together, and realize life.
Q9: What should I do if two people who love each other can't be together?
What everyone sees and encounters has been arranged in advance, and everything is fate. Fate originates and dies, fate gathers and disperses, everything is providential.
Love does not exist, it is just the mutual attraction of yin and yang, and time will verify the authenticity of love. True love, not appearance, figure, status, wealth, true love, is energy can be at the same frequency, wisdom can be equal, heart and heart can be one, soul can resonate, heart, energy, wisdom, realm, pattern, ambition, can resonate at the same frequency, only in this way can we be connected with our hearts, selfless unity, true love is eternal!