The top work mentality is the separation of love and money

Some netizens have shared their own teaching stories. As a teacher who teaches competitions, his level is very high, and many people come to him. But he is very picky and wants to teach on the basis of merit, but in the eyes of educational institutions, he has a bad temper and is not easy to communicate. The good reputation is slowly getting worse, and the performance is getting worse and worse. It wasn't until later that there was an accident at home and he was in urgent need of money, no matter what kind of children he faced, he was willing to teach, and he participated in training courses and lectures that he couldn't look down on before. The money he earned filled the family, and it also made his reputation better and better, and he felt that he was approachable and good-tempered. You see, some people don't make money because they don't have enough ability, but because they can't let go of their feelings and can't connect with the ground. If people limit themselves to a framework, it is easy to limit their way of thinking and doing things. Mature people know how to "separate love and money", work with money-making thinking, and satisfy their feelings with accumulated skills.

In life, this kind of person is actually not uncommon: it is said that the job must find what you like, so that you can work hard wholeheartedly;said that I don't like this job, I don't want to do it, and I don't earn it even if I have money;He said that he was too confused and didn't know what his dream in life was, so he didn't want to do anything. There is such a passage written in "The Water of the Waves":

If you want to be high, then clear to the end, but also mix up a realm.

If you want to join the WTO, then put down the shelf and join the WTO. I'm afraid, I'm afraid, it's not like a four.

I read a story about an entrepreneur who used to study medicine and was assigned to a university hospital after graduation. It sounds wonderful, but the reality is that it's poor and idle. In order to make money, she relied on her professional background to learn Xi beauty techniques, and came to make skin care for customers after work, and her career grew day by day, and the money in her bank account became more and more. Later, she also opened a beauty salon, which was in a constant stream of business, and in the third year, she opened a branch and invested in a bookstore. She said that opening a bookstore was her dream when she was studying, and when she was young, she didn't know how to make money through her hobby, so she could only choose to cater to the market, but now, even if the bookstore doesn't make money, I can afford it. We always think that there are infinite possibilities in life, but in fact, your future possibilities depend on whether you have worked hard to make money in the past. You must know that the feelings you are pursuing now may not necessarily become the road to the future. However, the money you are working hard to earn now will definitely make you grow faster, more fierce, and more powerful.

Some time ago, I saw a big V update the content. A friend of his, a girl who works in a large factory, felt that the work was too tiring, so she chose to resign naked and lie down in Dali. At the beginning, she filmed a short ** with other lying flat people and posted it on social **. There are running, Songkran Festival, and the beautiful Cangshan and Erhai Lake, and they have also gained a lot of attention. But the more time passes, the quality of her content gets worse and worse, the cookie-cutter copywriting makes it difficult for people to read it anymore, the traffic gets worse and worse, and she gradually stops updating. He asked: Why not update. The girl said: I don't make money, and I have to learn a lot of shooting skills, so I'm too lazy to get it. Later, she saw that the people who used to be ** together did a good job, and she also received a lot of advertisements. She posted such a news in her circle of friends: I regret not continuing. You see, when people can't make money, it's hard to rely on endurance to push themselves to improve. Many people who fish in the company, get off work at the end of the day, and receive a monthly salary are the same, neither tired nor technically difficult. In the same way, you will have a hard time making money.

Read a story shared by a presentation coach. Before he started his presentation training, he was just a member of an international club. Counting the number of times he has participated in national competitions in the past, he has carefully prepared speeches only a handful of times, and often plays on the spot. It is conceivable that there is no breakthrough in his speech level. But just last year, he received an invitation from a company to give an all-English presentation. The 18-minute speech received tens of thousands of people. This time he was not calm at all, not only prepared a verbatim manuscript a month in advance, but also found a lot of friends to try to teach. Later, a friend of the club saw his English speech** and sent a special message: The last time I saw you give a speech was a year ago, and I feel that you have gone up a big step now!But in fact, this step really can't be reached without money.

When you go to school, no matter how others persuade you to learn Xi it's useless, and after work, in order to make money, you take the initiative to memorize a few skill books and come back to read;When there is no performance, you can fish every day, and you can do it for two days, and you can work overtime every day after setting the performance, and you can't wait to do three copies a day;When I made a plan, I gave myself a frame, and no one could understand it, but when I actually handed it in, I wrote it more clearly than anyone else. You see, in fact, making money is the eternal driving force that keeps people moving up. I very much agree with such a passage: many people have two pursuits in their lives, one is rich and the other is valuable. A person who is rich is not necessarily worth money, but a person who is worth money is bound to be rich. When you're not making money, you're never going to be able to keep polishing and improving. And how well you improve will in turn affect how much you are worth. Only by constantly improving their abilities can they become valuable people.

Saw such a ** a long time ago. A takeaway brother in Shenzhen complained to his colleagues that it was too embarrassing to deliver takeaways and he didn't want to do it. As a result, another takeaway brother next to him couldn't help but yell at him: Your child has no money to study, and your parents have no money to see a doctor, so you are ashamed!Yes, it is never a shame to put down your head to make money, and it is really embarrassing if you wronged your family for the sake of face. At that time, Luo Yonghao used live broadcast to make money to pay off debts, and everyone said that it was too faceless. He responded: Face is the weakest of all problems, so weak that it is negligible. After all, in the adult world, the face is small, but the livelihood is big.

During the Chinese New Year last year, a courier brother was on the hot search. The little brother Wang Ning works alone in Beijing, and he doesn't go home even during the New Year's holidays. He took advantage of the fact that his peers were going home for the holidays, so that he could receive more orders and make more money. Usually he works 15 hours, and he can only earn 400 yuan when he gets up early and is greedy for night. During the holidays, he can not only get more orders, but also subsidize holidays. Many people left messages under the hot search: It's really out of the eyes of money, and it's a money obsession. But Wang Ning never took these remarks to heart, he only hoped to use his own efforts to let his family live a better life. I like what Li Ka-shing said:When you put down your money to make money, it means that you are already sensible. Sister Fried Noodles, who is popular all over the Internet, was originally the owner of a beauty salon, but it was not good to close the store due to the epidemic, so she put down her hair and stood on the street with her husband to sell fried noodles;The owner of an educational institution that used to manage more than a dozen employees, after the institution went bankrupt, he put down his hair and came out to deliver takeaways;The former owner of a private equity company, after the company went bankrupt, he started an online car-hailing car, and an acquaintance asked him if he was ashamed of it, and he said: When people are middle-aged, it is still important to make money and take care of their families. As an adult, you don't want to save face, earn more money, and take care of your family in order to win real decency. After all, it's more important to fill your belly than your skin. Don't be ashamed even if you keep your head down and bend over. Putting down his son to make a living is the strong man who really lives.

There is such a question on Zhihu: Why is it so difficult to work, and there are still people who have to work hard?There was an anonymous answer, in one sentence:"The real meaning of work is the capital for you to settle down, to make you have money to eat and raise your baby, to be filial to your parents, and to let you wake up in the middle of the night without being afraid. ”Work is to make a living, and feelings are to make love. Every adult must know how to set a correct mentality, not be attached to a concept, and learn to "separate love money". Know how to deal with career with a mature mindset and meet your dreams with a positive state.