A few years ago, I read The Age of Naked Marriage.
My heart was filled with deep emotion.
He was deeply aware that Liu Yiyang was a real man.
Now take a second look.
found out that Liu Yiyang was indeed a complete scum man.
Tong Jiaqian followed, apparently jumping into a fire pit.
The couple had been in love for 8 years, but opted for divorce in the first year of their marriage.
The end result is that both men are trying to think about it, but still can't let go of the feelings they have between them.
So he decided to remarry.
At the time, I thought it was a perfect finale.
Now, I can only think that Tong Jiaqian is really unwise, and she is once again in trouble.
01 In a marriage with no material foundation, Tong Jiaqian was finally treated unfairly.
In that year, Liu Yiyang affectionately expressed his marriage proposal.
It's really too hot to bear.
It is generally believed that Liu Yiyang is a real man, and he is full of romantic feelings.
That promise is really exciting.
Liu Yiyang shouted loudly: "Tong Jiaqian, I beg you to be my wife." Even though I have empty pockets, no house, and no diamond ring, I have a heart that is willing to accompany you until you grow old. When you are old, I will still carry you on my back and provide you with crutches. When you lose your teeth, I will chew them up and feed them to you. I will make sure that after you die, I will not leave you alone in this world. Tong Jiaqian, I love you so much!”
I really thought this sentence was romantic.
At the moment I don't think it's worth it.
Tong Jiaqian's family financial situation is quite good, and she has been enjoying a happy life like a princess.
Out of the pursuit of love, she has compromised.
However, what are the consequences of getting married?
The financial pressures on life are increasing.
Liu Yiyang lives in poverty and lives under the same roof as his parents.
Tong Jiaqian's quality of life after marriage has declined significantly.
Especially after giving birth to a child.
Life is full of difficulties and challenges.
I still remember a clip in which Tong Jiaqian suggested that Liu Yiyang buy milk powder.
Liu Yiyang went to withdraw the funds.
The number of kari is only a little over five hundred.
In retrospect, it's really sad.
Therefore, what kind of things did Tong Jiaqian gain in the process of pursuing love?
A small child. There are also more chaotic emotional entanglements.
There is also a more constrained daily life.
Considering Tong Jiaqian's background and environment, she really won't become so unbearable.
At the end of the day, it's all about true love.
Although my heart is full of grievances, I still need to move forward firmly.
As the saying goes: "Poor couples mourn everything".
Definitely not fake.
02 Liu Yiyang's various changes before and after marriage are really unacceptable.
If only poverty.
As long as you work hard to make money, things will get better.
In fact, Liu Yiyang is not the kind of man who will work hard to make money.
Moreover, in married life, Liu Yiyang has indeed experienced many changes.
Before getting married, they always use sweet words to coax their affection.
What is the situation after getting married?
He refuses to communicate with people, has a fiery personality, and has inappropriate relationships with colleagues in the company.
All the injustices that should be endured.
Tong Jiaqian did not miss a single item.
If the family is in financial difficulty, then go and earn money.
Rather than translating these into opposites and emotions.
Directly point to your spouse.
Such acts do not belong to men at all.
There are even some inferior things.
I still remember that clip vividly.
Liu Yiyang unexpectedly saw Tong Jiaqian pouring milk.
Indeed, Tong Jiaqian made a mistake.
However, she explained it in a very clear manner.
Liu Yiyang's heart was full of dissatisfaction, so he hid directly in the quilt.
No matter how Tong Jiaqian elaborates.
How to communicate effectively?
Liu Yiyang remained silent and did not say a word.
Later, Liu Yiyang felt very anxious.
Without hesitation, I lifted the quilt and walked directly in the direction of the milk powder can.
Sprinkle the milk powder all over the place.
Tong Jiaqian's heart was like a knife, she suddenly slapped Liu Yiyang, and screamed loudly: "Are you crazy?" ”
This text really gives a deep sense of sadness.
Tong Jia couldn't cry, her heart was like a knife.
Tong Jiaqian married that family without hesitation.
Such treatment was accepted in this way?
Liu Yiyang's lifelong commitment to love at that time was as precious as that bottle of milk powder.
The whole place was shattered.
03 exacerbated the conflict between his mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, he is a stupid and filial man.
Liu Yiyang's crimes are much more than that.
As an incompetent man, he lacks even basic problem-solving skills.
Not to mention using high emotional intelligence to solve the conflict between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law.
Tong Jiaqian lives a life like a princess.
Become a member of a family like Liu Yiyang.
This is already unfair treatment.
If you can't get Liu Yiyang's continued pampering and understanding, then that's it.
I also have to face those unreasonable and stingy mothers-in-law.
To what extent did Liu Yiyang's mother-in-law nag him?
Not interested in anything, not allowed to buy anything.
Tong Jiaqian's parents came to visit their daughter, but they were unwilling to pay for the funds needed to eat.
Tong Jiaqian is forbidden to wear makeup.
There is a complete lack of emotional intelligence and a sense of boundaries.
Once you walk into their room, you will never knock on the door.
As a result, they unexpectedly saw the two being intimate, which caused everyone to feel very embarrassed.
There are indeed some problems with this kind of mother-in-law.
It's not very popular either.
Tong Jiaqian is in **?
Outspoken, undistracted, well aware of the mother-in-law's concern about expensive items.
You also need to introduce her to the ** items you have purchased.
This is actually angering the mother-in-law's mood.
Even so.
Liu Yiyang's mother cannot be called a competent mother-in-law.
The conflict between the mother-in-law and the daughter-in-law often stems from the mother-in-law herself.
As for Liu Yiyang, what is his attitude?
Tong Jiaqian always admits her mistakes on the surface, but is coaxed behind the scenes.
It looks like the problem has been solved.
In fact, he was pampering his mother, and at the same time he was feeling wronged by his daughter-in-law.
We should have a clear understanding of what is right or wrong.
Instead of asking the younger generation of Tong Jiaqian to admit her mistakes every time.
Here's a summary.
Now take a second look.
I really think that Liu Yiyang is a man who is not to be relied upon.
The 8-year romance between them was indeed filled with sadness.
As Tong Jiaqian's tears said: "The relationship of these eight years cannot be compared with a marriage certificate and a child. ”
Indeed it is. When love and reality meet, they are all like scattered grains of sand in the end.
In the TV series, the two finally get back together.
It's just the end of a perfect fairy tale.
What happens after remarrying?
Can you completely avoid all the problems you had before?
But in real life.
In this case, only a small percentage choose to remarry.
Tong Jiaqian once again chose to jump into the fire, but everything she did was for a deep reason: that is, love.
Is it really worth it?
It's up to us to experience it ourselves.
The topic of today's discussion is: Do you think Tong Jiaqian is a fool?