Yu Mingjia grew up in a strict intellectual family in Changchun, his father was a leader in the traffic police brigade, and his mother was always a complete housewife. They are all orthodox intellectuals, and they have extremely high expectations for their children, hoping that their daughters will become *** or professors in the future. Since he was a child, Minga has been under the pressure of his parents' strict requirements and heavy schoolwork. 
Her mother dressed her up beautifully and discussed with other aunts that she should attend various cram schools. Piano, calligraphy and painting, guzheng. I have to work three classes a week, and I have never let my daughter have a moment of freedom. At the same time, she felt depressed as she watched the children from the next door play sand games downstairs and not be allowed to leave their mother's sight. In such an environment, Yu Mingjia became extremely quiet and introverted, and rarely socialized with his peers. She has learned a good hand of guzheng and plays the piano very well, but she has only a handful of friends. Parents have always been very satisfied and proud of their daughter's well-behaved, and the relatives around them are even more envious that they have a "good girl". Under various circumstances, Yu Mingjia gradually developed the temperament of an introverted villain and grew up quietly**. 
In his junior year of high school, Yu Mingjia plucked up the courage to announce his dream of becoming an actor to his parents. On this day, she came home from school, took a deep breath, and said the truth to her mother, who was comfortably watching TV on the sofa: "Mom, I don't want to be a diplomat, I want to be an actor, I like acting." This sentence was like a bolt from the blue, completely disrupting the prepared blueprint for the life of a diplomat. The mother excitedly asked her daughter, "Do you know what you're talking about?" and responded with extreme disapproval. And the father directly gave his daughter a "thought work", accusing her of "rebellious" where the idea came from. The mother also got through the ** of her aunt who was abroad, hoping that this successful woman could persuade Yu Mingjia to give up her "unrealistic" fantasies. Surprisingly, however, the aunt and uncle were very open-minded, and they did not feel that being an actor would be any more unhappy or bleak than being a diplomat. 
The aunt comforted her niece in a whisper, saying that she would fully support her choice;The uncle immediately rushed back to his hometown from abroad and told his parents in person that they should respect their children's dreams. Under the persuasion of the two, his parents reluctantly agreed to Yu Mingjia to apply for the ** Drama Academy. When she got on the train and left home, her mother couldn't help but tell her daughter to "think carefully about whether to repeat her studies". She believes that the actor industry is unstable and it is difficult to succeed. But Yu Mingjia has made up her mind, she wants her parents to see that she will break into the world through her own efforts. 
Being admitted to the ** Drama Academy was the first major turning point in Yu Mingjia's life. At first, her life in Chinese opera was very unsatisfactory, her performance was mediocre, and the teacher's evaluation was also unsatisfactory. This was 108,000 miles short of her expectations. On the first day of school, she was stunned by the "wealthy girls" gathered here. Many of the classmates in the class were originally born as child stars, and they have been in the film and television industry since they were children, and their acting skills are perfect. And she, a layman, naturally fell behind, and the first sketch performance was incoherent because of nervousness, and she was yelled at by the teacher several times, and got a big bad review. 
Such days lasted for more than half a year, and Yu Mingjia's results never left the position at the end of the crane. She endured the disappointment or stares of her teachers from time to time, which devastated her and even thought about changing majors. At the most difficult time, her mother made a special trip to Beijing to meet her, which eased her anxiety and pressure a little. After this baptism of trough, Yu Mingjia adjusted his mentality and rekindled his will to fight. She began to catch up harder, no longer afraid to shrink from the teacher's criticism. In the end, the four years of hard work were not in vain, and she completed her studies with excellent grades and successfully changed her fate. This is also the first big counterattack in her life. 
In 2007, Yu Mingjia finally ushered in the first career peak of his life. In the TV series "Golden Wedding" starring Zhang Guoli and Jiang Yuwen, which was broadcast that year, she played the role of the third daughter "Tong Duoduo" with a lively and cheerful personality. This supporting role was deeply loved by the audience, and Yu Mingjia became popular in the entertainment industry because of this, and finally got rid of the previous nobody. When she was 25 years old, she excitedly gave her parents the first **, told them in detail about the interesting things in the crew, and expressed her filial piety to buy a house to serve. However, the parents on the other end are concerned about another issue - their daughter's marriage. 
Now that you're 25 years old, it's time to think about life's work. The parents reminded. Only then did Yu Mingjia realize that as he grew older and more career, the pressure on his parents to urge him to marry would also increase. This has become a hurdle in her acting career. Since then, the urging of parents to marry** has become commonplace. Yu Mingjia had to prevaricate them on the grounds that he was busy with work, and his parents gradually stopped buying it. Finally, at the age of 27, they couldn't wait, bought a ticket and rushed directly from their hometown to Beijing, ready to find a partner for their daughter by themselves. A period of crazy marriage urging and blind dates made Yu Mingjia feel extremely headaches. She had to stay back in the hotel next to the crew to escape her parents' bad things. She thought that she could finally survive in secret, but she didn't expect that even greater bad news was coming to her. 
When my parents returned home, the situation became even more difficult to manage. They pulled a group of relatives and aunts to continue to arrange blind dates for their daughters here in Changchun. In the face of this crazy marriage urging disaster, Yu Mingjia could only temporarily interrupt his work and go back to his hometown to face it. In the course of a series of blind dates, she met all kinds of failed objects. The first man to meet was flirtatious and abrupt, and he wanted her to be a housewife;The second discriminates against women and looks down on women to work outside the home. All kinds of ridiculous blind dates made Yu Mingjia feel troubled, and her attitude gradually changed from the initial dignified to casual. Just when she was about to give up, a man named Hu Jun appeared. The first time the two met in a French restaurant, Hu Jun's outfit was a bit literary and retro, which left a bad first impression on her. 
To her surprise, the introducer told her that this was a successful Shanghai executive. However, as soon as the two began to chat, Hu Jun showed old-fashioned thoughts that displeased her. He believes that women who work outside the home should not spend too much time and money on entertainment, and need to go home and take care of the family more. This aroused Yu Mingjia's disgust, and she immediately sneered at each other and asked if the other party was too poor to support his wife. The two had a big quarrel and broke up unhappily. The day after that unhappy breakup, Yu Mingjia received an apology text message from Hu Jun. He also attached a lot of jokes to try to amuse the woman. This unexpected move made Yu Mingjia slightly change his opinion of Hu Jun. 
After that, Hu Jun often sent her messages, and the relationship between the two gradually improved. One day, Yu's father happened to see his daughter smiling and staring at the mobile phone chatting, and immediately guessed that the other party was likely to be a son-in-law candidate. So he immediately invited Hu Jun to sit at home, wanting to get to know this potential son-in-law up close. Hu Jun's sincerity made Yu's parents quite satisfied. He took care of Yu Mingjia's daily life, sent her to the hospital to see a doctor, bought vegetables and cooked, and helped her fill the refrigerator. All kinds of actions invisibly won the favor of his father-in-law and mother-in-law.
Three months later, 27-year-old Yu Mingjia and Hu Junlightning registered their marriage. Soon after marriage, she gave birth to two daughters, and her parents were very relieved by the happy and warm family life, and they no longer worried about their daughter's lifelong events. Now 39 years old, she not only has a successful career, but also has a happy marriage, which can be described as a career and family. As for Hu Jun's husband, her attitude has always been both compromise and satisfaction. Hu Jun is not outstanding, but he is careful and considerate to her, which is enough. What's even more commendable is that Hu Jun did not feel inferior because of his wife's success, and he respected and supported the woman's career, which made Yu Mingjia grateful.
Now 39 years old, Yu Mingjia is in the double harvest period of career and life. Years of acting experience have made her grow into a powerful actor, and she is no longer a small role at the beginning. She has taken over a number of hit dramas in recent years, and she is going to participate in a big-budget opera, and her acting career can be described as a good one. Matching the successful acting career, she also has a happy family. Although Hu Jun, the original blind date, was not outstanding, after years of getting along, Yu Mingjia found that he was a good man who was considerate and took care of himself. Now they have two daughters, and her husband has never felt inferior because of his career success, and has always strongly supported her development.
Looking back on his life, Yu Mingjia can't help but sigh that although his parents' crazy urging for marriage and blind date back then was extremely painful, the result was unexpectedly good. It was that series of absurd blind dates that she met her current husband. At the same time, if there is no pressure from her parents, she may still be a single Wang who is disappointed in both career and love. I can't help but thank my parents for her "forced marriage" back then. The various encounters and arrangements in life are wonderful after all. She sincerely sighed that she was really lucky.