In the TV series "Snail House", Guo Haiping is a tenacious woman. In order to buy a property in the metropolis, she and her husband Su Chun live a life of tightening their belts. In the face of constantly ** housing prices, Guo Haiping can only work two jobs a day, and she has to teach foreigners to learn Chinese Xi at night. Even though she was a chemical engineering graduate, she forced herself to start learning Xi English vocabulary.
The reason why Guo Haiping is so "desperate" is not only because she learned about the current situation of the real estate market too early, but also because her daughter has become a stranger to her in her hometown. What's more, her husband Su Chun is "powerless", and if she doesn't take the initiative to take responsibility for buying a house, I'm afraid she will never be able to take her daughter to the metropolis.
Su Chun was born into a relatively poor family, and as a filial son, he was reluctant to ask his family for money. Haiping suggested raising funds to buy real estate, and Su Chun verbally promised to give the family 60,000 yuan. But Haiping found that Su Chun did not disclose it to his family, but borrowed usury without authorization.
Angry, Haiping insisted on ending her marriage with Su Chun, but under the persuasion of her sister and "brother-in-law", she finally endured it. In fact, the divorce was just the result of her impulse.
In the play, Su Chun's "incompetence" is already obvious. His wife, Haiping, who married him, had neither a house nor a car, and the two were crammed into a small, dilapidated rental house, with multiple children living in difficulty. But Haiping never complained, but Su Chun was very satisfied with such a life, and he rarely thought about how to make his wife and children live a better life.
Haiping and Su Chun are both graduates of famous universities, and their lives will not be too poor, but as long as Su Chun is a little ambitious, Haiping will not be forced to become the so-called "strong woman".
Although many people praise Su Chun as a good man, thinking that he is not a flowery person, he is practical in his work, and he has a good temper, but he and Haiping are able to live a better and better life, mainly because of Haiping's courage and determination.
In order to pay the down payment for the purchase of a house, Haiping was careful and could only choose Shimizu somen for dinner. She forced Su Chun to quit smoking, but Su Chun expressed dissatisfaction with this, believing that his wife was too cold.
Haiping's strict personality is driven by the pressure of life, and she treats herself mercilessly. After work, she sat on the bus home, still trying to learn Xi English. Years after graduating from college, she regained her non-professional knowledge, which is no easy task for a married woman with children.
At first, foreign students were dissatisfied with her professional ability, believing that she was not professional enough, but she persevered until she had several students, and eventually she started her own school.
Su Chun was puzzled by his wife Haiping's hard work, and even a little sarcastic. When he sees Haiping staying up late studying in her rented house, he jokingly asks her if she can master this skill.
Compared to the "incompetence" of her husband, the thing that a married woman fears the most is this: not only does she not see your dedication and effort, but she may even belittle you.
Su Chun is not very skilled at handling interpersonal interactions in the workplace, and he just wants to be able to become a technician calmly. But because he was a little ignorant, he was called to the police by the company while doing some private work, saying that he leaked the company's confidential information. Even though he has been working for many years, he still lacks basic common sense. Faced with this situation, Haiping had to look for a lawyer everywhere, hoping to "rescue" him.
Judging from the big and small affairs of the family, Su Chun relies on Haiping too much, but Haiping relies on him relatively little. However, Su Chun's "incompetence" and "procrastination" made Haiping confused, why didn't she choose to divorce him?
First of all, it should be clear that Haiping and Su Chun were classmates in college, and they had a free love affair and a deep emotional bond, so at Haiping's wedding, she did not specifically ask Su Chun to pay any form of bride price.
When Su Chun**, Haiping was deeply worried. In Haiping's heart, Su Chun is a very important person. At the critical moment, Haiping not only did not think that Su Chun was a burden, but realized her inner world more clearly and realized that she could not lose Su Chun.
Furthermore, Haiping has the responsibility to provide a complete family environment for her children. Considering that the children are still very young, if she chooses to divorce, as a single mother, Haiping will not have an easier life than she currently has with the responsibility of taking on the mortgage and raising the children alone.
When women decide to divorce, they do need a tremendous amount of courage. Many bystanders, seeing men's flaws "exposed," often counsel them to consider divorce. But what really determines the happiness of a marriage is not that once a problem arises, it must be solved through divorce.
In the end, Su Chun became a symbol of ordinary men, while Song Siming, who had wealth and handsome appearance, was difficult to meet for ordinary women. Haiping's divorce does not mean that she will definitely meet a better man than Su Chun.
Although many people are fond of being rich and handsome, in real life, most women tend to marry only men like Su Chun. These men don't have much ambition and ambition, and they may not have very high emotional intelligence and don't know how to make women happy, but they are all honest and well-behaved. Their biggest bad Xi is smoking, which makes them look unpromising and boring.
However, marriage is a journey for two people to work together to make life better. They support each other in times of trouble;When it comes to achievements, they share them with each other. Despite Haiping's success in her career, she did not leave Su Chun. This also reflects Su Chun's "incompetent" character, which brings a lot of comfort to Haiping in her marriage.