Since the post-90s generation, the level of education of parents has improved rapidly, whether it is a family with better economic conditions or a family with poor economic conditions, parents will provide students with the best quality educational resources, they would rather suffer themselves than their children's education. Parenting
At the same time as being admitted to a good school, parents will also enroll students in various make-up classes and interest classes, which has become a kind of involution, making parents become chicken babies and cramming education.
These educations continue to appear, and gradually begin to fall into a dead loop, but they do not know that parents and students have been forced into involution.
Although it is said that under this practice, the scores of the students have indeed risen to a higher level, and many students have been admitted to prestigious schools, realizing the expectations of parents for their children.
In this way, the scores of the students did go up, and the students could still be admitted to 985 schools, but behind this was the endless suffering of the students, or the dissatisfaction with their parents.
A father complained about his daughter on the Internet and attached a text explanation, many people did not believe that this sentence came from an old father's complaint about his daughter's true state.
He said that his daughter had graduated from a 985 school, and her daughter was usually lazy and very selfish, and when posting, the father said that his daughter had excellent grades when she grew up, and she was admitted to a 985 school when she took the college entrance examination.
Now after graduation, I go back to my hometown to work and live at home every day, but I haven't been home for long, and the conflict between my daughter and the couple has intensified.
At the beginning, the daughter thought that her parents were chattering, and she would intervene no matter what she did, and she felt as if she had returned to her childhood and was controlled by her parents, so her personal emotions were very unstable, and she would occasionally quarrel with her parents.
As parents, both of them think that their daughter is not as obedient and sensible as before, plus the whole person is lazy to do it, and she has not done a housework after returning home, and the room is like a pig's nest, and the father said that she is acting.
Not only that, but her daughter spends money generously, and every time she doesn't take the initiative to say a word to her father, she asks for money when she opens her mouth, and she always dyes her hair in various colors.
didn't eat their own meals at home, and ordered takeout, so the couple wanted to find a partner for their daughter as soon as possible, so they posted a Weibo on the Internet saying that they hoped to post 200,000 yuan, and some people could ask to marry her.
In their eyes, their daughter only has the aura of a 985 school, and when they saw this father so anxious, the attitude of many netizens was surprising.
They joked, is my dad a bit Versailles, every sentence hangs on the 985 school, their own children just can't get into the 985 school, and they don't even have a stable job, and some parents say that their children are too much for their daughter, and they also take the initiative to comfort my father.
In our society today, there are many graduates of highly educated schools, just like the 985 graduates in this article, who have no plans for the future and choose to return to their hometowns to work after graduation.
However, because they just started studying when they were students, they were called "waste people", and their personalities were still withdrawn, and they couldn't sympathize with their parents' sadness at all.
The article concludes with a summary.
If students choose to go home to work nearby, it is necessary to plan the future direction, do more housework at home, help parents share the hard work, and repay their parents for their teachings over the years.