We have 6 retired members of our family, and our 90-year-old mom is being cared for by a nanny, all because of my dad's will. Today, an unexpected difficulty happened at home that made me feel heavy.
It was a normal Monday and my siblings and I were chatting in the living room. Suddenly, the nanny came to me in a panic and told me that my mother had fallen in the bedroom and that her injuries were not serious.
I rushed anxiously into the bedroom and saw my mother lying on the floor, already with a blood stain on her forehead. I immediately picked her up and asked if she had any injuries. Mom struggled to sit up, her voice trembling to tell me she had broken her leg.
I quickly gathered my siblings and worked together to put my mother on the bed. I asked my eldest sister to get a first aid kit, and my younger sister immediately contacted an ambulance. The eldest brother and the second brother quickly contacted the family doctor and **, hoping to get professional medical assistance as soon as possible.
As I waited for the ambulance, I held my mother's hand tightly, filled with guilt and anxiety. All six of us are retired at home, but due to our father's will, we are unable to take care of our elderly mother by ourselves.
And hiring a nanny to take our place and become a soul mate and caregiver by our mother's side is a regret and pain that we brothers and sisters cannot let go.
Ambulances arrived quickly, and paramedics treated her wounds while asking her about the fall. The mother tearfully explained to them that due to a moment of negligence, she did not notice the small objects on the ground, and as a result, her feet slipped and she fell.
The doctor reassured her mother and told her that she should not be overly anxious and that the injury was not serious. It just takes a good rest and then a detailed examination to make sure there are no other injuries.
* Kindly reminded the old lady to pay attention to safety, the old lady nodded in agreement and wiped away her tears, which made our brother and sister feel very distressed. Although the 90-year-old lady was supposed to be taken care of by us, due to my father's will, we were unable to fulfill this responsibility, which made us feel deeply guilty and helpless.
The eldest sister cried and said, "I'm sorry, Mom, it's us who are sorry for you." The little sister also sobbed and said, "Yes, Mom, we are not filial, so you have been wronged."
Children, don't blame yourself, it's all because of our dad's will, and we have no other way. Mom comforted us. I stared at my mother's kind face, filled with deep gratitude and guilt.
We can't provide a better life for our mother, and we can't always be by our side, which fills our hearts with endless regret and guilt. "Mom, don't worry, we will definitely be more cautious next time and don't let you get hurt again.
The eldest brother held his mother's hand tightly and solemnly promised.
That's right, Mom, we will spend more time with you and make you feel loved and valued. "The eldest brother also chimed in. "Children, your filial mothers have felt it.
As long as you are happy, Mom will feel extremely satisfied. "Mom smiled and patted us lightly on the shoulder. Looking at my mother's happy smile, the sense of self-blame in our hearts is even deeper.
We can't let mom suffer more alone, we have to do our best to bring more companionship and happiness to mom. This is our responsibility and obligation as children.
Just when my siblings decided to care more about their mother, something unexpected happened at home. That night, the eldest brother received a strange phone call, who claimed to be a hospital staff member, saying that they had admitted an elderly man named Grandma Li, and this old man actually claimed to be the eldest brother's own mother.
The eldest brother was stunned for a moment, and he nervously asked the other party about the old man's situation. The other party told him that the old man had an accident and was being rescued in the hospital. Our whole family was stunned to hear the news, because we never mentioned anything else about our parents in our lives.
So, my brother and sister decided to go to the hospital together to find out.
In the hospital, we met an old woman with white hair, receiving **. The eldest brother gently walked up to her bed and asked, "Grandma, why are you here?"
The old woman squinted her eyes and recognized the eldest brother, with mixed emotions in her eyes. "yes, I haven't forgotten my son's voice. The old woman said in a slightly trembling voice.
Our brother and sister looked at this strange old woman with questions in our hearts. The eldest brother hesitated and asked, "Grandma, you said that you are our mother, but our mother ......."”
The eldest brother's words were interrupted by the grandmother, and she asked us, "You are the children of the Xu family, right?"I am your biological mother, Grandma Li......"Our whole family fell silent, and for a moment we didn't know what to do.
Who is this grandmother who claims to be our relative?Our hearts are full of doubts and uneasiness, and this sudden contradiction makes us feel helpless.
At a time when this family is in turmoil, we desperately need an answer. But for now, this unresolved situation leaves us feeling helpless. We need to face this unexpected difficulty and unravel the secrets of the family in order to find the truth and then resolve this contradiction.
Our brother and sister stared silently at the old grandmother on the bed, our hearts filled with confusion and confusion. This sudden turn of events was undoubtedly a huge shock to us, and we urgently need to remain calm and find out the facts behind it.
We decided to stay up all night to dig into the mystery ...... the familyMy siblings and I silently made a promise to spend more time with my mother, so that she could enjoy her old age in peace and live a more enjoyable and comfortable life.
However, in the midst of our seemingly peaceful lives, a new conflict emerges.
The sudden change put the family in a difficult situation. Xiao Li, the cousin of the broom sister-in-law, was found to have leukemia, and the high ** cost made the broom sister-in-law feel painful, so she could only ask her family for help.
My siblings were shocked to hear the news, as it was a big burden. We need to come up with a large sum of money as soon as possible to pay for Xiao Li's medical expenses.
However, this news also caused conflicts between our siblings. Although everyone agreed to do their best to help Xiao Li, the amount involved was still a huge expense for us.
To make matters worse, my father's will stipulated that we had to spend most of our money on my mother's living expenses and medical expenses.
We all believe that my mother is the person who needs the most care in the family and deserves our full support and care. But the younger sister and the second brother felt that we should try our best to help the eldest sister of the broomstick, because this is the time when we reached out to help others in danger.
The will left by my father clearly stipulates the distribution of funds, and we cannot change it easily. "I'm trying to calm everyone down. "Can you just watch Xiao Li get into trouble?
Xiaomei's emotions became a little excited.
Of course not, but we also have to take into account the age and life needs of the mother. "The eldest brother began to express his thoughts. "But Xiao Li's situation is also urgent, and if we don't help him, he may be in trouble.
The second brother raised his concerns. At this time, my mother couldn't listen anymore, and her voice trembled a little:"My heartache, children, is to see you conflicting over money.
The money is not important, the family's business is the family's business, we need to work together and support each other. You don't have to worry about me. "
Hearing my mother's words, I couldn't help but feel a sense of sadness in my heart. My brother and sister were originally a family, but there was a dispute over money, which filled my heart with a heavy heart.
At this moment, the atmosphere at home has become a little depressing, and the contradictions between brothers and sisters have not been resolved, but are gradually intensifying. This made me miserable, and the entanglements and conflicts in my family made my otherwise peaceful life become turbulent.
With feelings of guilt and ambivalence for our mother, our family fell silently into an indescribable silence. On this silent night, I turned off the lights in my room, but I couldn't sleep.
Thoughts swirled like a tide in the depths of my heart.
It was one of the most anxious times our family had in a long time. Although my father's will was our last guide, it also became an insurmountable obstacle to the emotional communication between our siblings and our mother.
We are full of guilt, but we can't get out of this predicament. Our mother's health worries us, and although she is able to get by with the babysitter, we still feel as relieved as we are by her side.
Just as I was thinking deeply, suddenly, a rapid ** bell broke the silence. I immediately got up to answer it, and it turned out to be a call from our nanny, Xiao Wang.
Her voice was a little nervous, saying that her mother suddenly felt chest tightness and nausea, and that the situation did not seem to be good. I was so shocked that I immediately asked her to call the emergency service** and rush to the hospital immediately.
When we arrived at the hospital, the doctor told us that my mother was feeling unwell, but it was fine. The doctor advised us to spend more time with our mother, take care of her diet and daily life, and keep her mood happy.
Hearing the doctor's words, we felt a little remorseful that we had neglected our mother's emotional needs in the midst of the disputes and doubts caused by our father's will. In the midst of these trivial and complicated matters, we seem to return to our childhood, that home full of laughter and warmth.
On the way to the hospital, we started thinking about how to take care of our mother in the future. We understand that the father's will is important, but for us, the mother is the closest person.
Although it was necessary to abide by the father's will, we decided to try to be more with our mother, who deserved to be treated as such, no matter what. This decision is challenging, but we firmly believe that it is a respect for family and affection, and a response to our hearts.