Marriage is a major event in life, and you must be cautious. As the saying goes, keep your eyes open before marriage and close your eyes after marriage. If you can't see clearly when choosing a marriage partner, you will have to be more patient after marriage.
Of course, if you find that two people are not suitable, you should make a break as soon as possible, and it is also a wisdom to be able to stop losses in time, otherwise the longer it drags on, the greater the damage.
Somewhere in Hunan, after three months of engagement, a woman found that she was not suitable for her partner, and resolutely proposed to withdraw from the marriage, and returned all the bride price and three gold she received, which caused discussion among the majority of netizens.
According to insiders, the woman and her fiancé met on a blind date, and the impression was good at first, and the conditions of the two families were comparable, so they agreed to the marriage.
The parents of both sides met, discussed the marriage together, agreed on various matters and the wedding date, and then the man quickly sent the bride price of 180,000 yuan and three gold to the woman's home.
From the realization of the engagement, everything went well, and the next thing is to wait for the wedding. Naturally, the two young people also meet often to deepen their relationship.
I don't know if it's because I feel that the marriage is nine out of ten, and the fiancé's attitude towards the woman is no longer so accommodating, and what he usually looks like shows the most real side.
Then in the process of getting along with the two people, the woman found that she and her fiancé were not suitable in many ways, and the two people did not get along very happily, and there were often disputes.
At first, the fiancé didn't realize the seriousness of the problem, and felt that it was normal for the two of them to have a small quarrel together, but the woman had begun to regret the marriage of the two.
After thinking about it again, the woman finally made up her mind and proposed to withdraw from the marriage, taking advantage of the fact that she had not yet obtained a license to hold a wedding, and quickly ended the relationship between the two people.
The fiancé wants to redeem it, but it is to no avail, the woman is hard-hearted, and no matter how much she persuades her, she will not turn back. However, the woman also said that all the gifts received would be refunded and he would not suffer.
Then the two families made an appointment, and the man came to the woman's house. The woman converted the bride price and three golds, a total of 200,000 yuan, all of which were returned to the man, and discussed that the two families would not owe each other and would not slander each other.
During the whole process, the man sat on the side without saying a word, his last hope was shattered, and his mood was a little depressed. The matter of receiving the gift money was all handed over to the family, and after checking that it was correct, the two families could be regarded as a good reunion.
Someone filmed this scene and posted it on the Internet, lamenting that the fate of the two families ended like this, which immediately aroused heated discussions among netizens.
Some netizens commented that the girl will be very free and easy no matter who she goes to, but it is not necessarily who the man marries. I feel that this divorce is a good thing for the woman, but it is not good for the man.
Some netizens commented that this is also very good, stop the loss in time, as long as you don't get married and have children, it's still too late.
Some netizens also commented that she had no problem withdrawing from the marriage, and she also put herself on the moral high ground.
Three months after the woman was engaged, she found that she was not suitable for her fiancé, so she proposed to withdraw from the marriage and returned all the three gold and bride price she received.
It is a very normal thing to regret the marriage and return the gift money, but it is because there are many people who make too ugly trouble for the gift money, which makes it seem that the woman's behavior is very rare.
Incompatibility is not necessarily a problem of one person, it may be the incompatibility of two personalities. Although the engagement is too rushed, fortunately, two people still have enough time to contact before marriage, which is better than regretting it after marriage.