With the continuous maturity and development of the human body, the emotional aspect has gradually become rich, most human beings are emotional, in fact, it can be said that almost all, but some people gradually become rational in the process of growing up, but there are still emotional components.
Our human emotions are very rich, the strongest of which is family affection and love, and love is the most changeable, so even if a relationship ends, it still affects our emotions and hearts.
There is a friend who is unhappy because he has watched too much emotional drama The heroine's second relationship is always affected by the first relationship, so he decided to get married and have children after only one relationship, and after getting married, he found that there were better men than his husband, and then he responded to the sentence "Although there is no trouble with the ex, there is also the helplessness of love and can't get it." ”
In fact, experiencing 1 or 2 relationships before getting married will make you more emotionally mature and more stable, and when you are physically and mentally settled, you will be more stable in getting married and raising the next generation.
How do you deal with the troubles caused by the previous relationship?
When you meet an ex-boyfriend, it will be handled differently for different people. Some may chooseGreet with a smile and stay calm and mature；Some people may choose to ignore it and avoid unnecessary trouble;Others may choose to start over and give each other a chance. But either way, we need to stay rational and calm, and avoid irrational behavior because of mood swings.
If you still have feelings for your ex-boyfriend, then starting over is a great option. But beware, starting over requires both parties to have the will to do so, and to think carefully and evaluate whether each other's relationship is really suitable for continued development.
If you've let go of your ex-boyfriend, thenSmile greetings or ignore themare all good choices. But either way, keep it upConfident and calmDon't let your ex-boyfriend negatively affect your emotions and disrupt the rhythm of your life.
Socrates asked the students to pick the story of the ears of wheat, because they couldn't go back in the process of picking the ears of wheat, so they were not sure if what they saw was the best, and they always thought that the best was still ahead, but after walking through, they found that the later ones were not as good as the previous ones, so they didn't pick a single ear of wheat. Socrates laughed and said that this is love.Finally, I would like to say that there are many people and things that we encounter in life, and there are many situations that surprise and surprise us. But as long as we remain calm and rational, believe in ourselves and believe in the future, then nothing will affect our pace of progress.
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