In order to make money, Gu Jia sold her classic bracelet in a second-hand store, and was worn by Mrs. Yu on the second day to show off. 
Gu Jia's face was impassive, and after the party ended, she immediately contacted Manni, who works in a luxury store, and asked if this limited edition bracelet had any new arrivals. After she got the answer, she couldn't believe it, it turned out that Mrs. Yu, who had infinite scenery, would also buy second-hand goods to save face. Rich people, do they really buy second-hand goods?Wang Manni looks at the experience of working for many years:Truly wealthy guests will not buy second-hand things because there are taboos in their hearts. 
Gu Jia tried her best to squeeze into the circle of rich wives, so that her son could go to a top kindergarten and bring business to the family company. When she really entered this circle, she found that the life of rich people is completely different from what she imagined, and rich people will also slap their swollen faces and become fat for the sake of "face". Mrs. Yu wears a bracelet of more than 100,000 yuan and carries a bag of hundreds of thousands. Mrs. Yu wants to have face in the rich wife circle, so she can only show off what she has, so as not to be looked down upon. All her economic ** depends on her husband, from a small actor in the eighteenth tier to a wealthy family, it seems that she has achieved class freedom, but in fact, she can only get pocket money by pleasing her husband in a low voice and coaxing her five-year-old stepson. 
After Gu Jia, who has high emotional intelligence, saw through Mrs. Yu's embarrassment, she comforted her that "it is difficult to be a stepmother", and at the same time took the initiative to give her advice and teach her how to get along with her children. Mrs. Yu was suspicious, and it wasn't until the relationship with her stepson eased and her husband generously spent money that she became close to Gu Jia. Interpersonal relationships are very realistic, if a person has no value, no one will take you seriously, even if he is in a powerful circle. Gu Jia took advantage of Mrs. Wang's relationship to enter the circle of rich wives, and at first everyone ignored her, and even the group photo would be deliberately cut. When Gu Jia showed her value, the talents in the wife circle took her in their eyes and took the initiative to talk. The circle that a person is in is important, but the more important thing is his own strength, if he is not capable, he has to squeeze the circle that does not belong to him, and in the end he will only be disgraced and embarrassed. Just like Gu Jia put down her body and lifted her shoes to Mrs. Wang, she flattered her in every possible way, just to let Mrs. Wang write a letter of introduction and let her son go to a top kindergarten. Even if Mrs. Wang wrote a letter of recommendation, she asked Gu Jia to hold a fireworks show for the kindergarten, so that the child could be enrolled in school smoothly. No matter how high Gu Jia's emotional intelligence is, if she only knows about climbing relationships, and her family does not have the strength to let her children go to kindergarten, it will be difficult to get what she wants. 
The essence of interpersonal communication, in a nutshell, is value exchange. Interpersonal communication follows the law of strengthYour relationship with anyone does not depend on your state, but on your strength. If a person is too weak, he can provide little value, and even if he treats people well, he is easy to be oppressed by evil people. People who are really powerful will not spend too much time and energy on maintaining relationships, but focus on improving their abilities. The phoenix will come, and the flowers and butterflies will come. When you cultivate strong enough, the people around you will be kind to you, and it will be easier to meet like-minded "fellow travelers".