Homeschooling plays a vital role in the development of students. Parents are the "first teachers" of students, and their words and actions can have an impact on all aspects of their children. The way they teach them will leave a deep imprint on their students. There is a saying that says: "Dragons give birth to dragons, phoenixes give birth to phoenixes, and what kind of parents can cultivate what kind of children." Although this statement is not absolute, homeschooling has a significant impact on a child's development.
However, there are some exceptions in the lower families, who are also able to raise excellent children. With their own struggle and efforts, these children successfully counterattacked and were admitted to first-class universities, thus realizing the class leap of the family. Their success not only brought them the opportunity to change their fate, but also gave great encouragement and hope to the families at the bottom.
1. The counterattack of youth
There is a Tsinghua University student from Shanxi Province, his father is a taxi driver, and his mother is a staff member of the sanitation department. Although his family is not financially wealthy, he was successfully admitted to Tsinghua University with his own efforts, which can be said to be a complete counterattack. Surprisingly, however, he reminded other students to "don't take your parents too seriously." Behind this sentence, he revealed the pain and helplessness of the parents at the bottom.
2. Insufficient educational resources for families
There is a big gap between the educational resources that the low-income families are exposed to compared with the privileged families. Taking Beijing's "Haidian Baby" as an example, they can receive high-quality educational resources from an early age, which makes many children from ordinary families feel ashamed. In contrast, children from underprivileged families are often at a disadvantage in terms of education and do not have access to the same educational opportunities. This leaves them with a lot of confusion and uncertainty when choosing a school and major.
3. Ignorance and incomprehension of parents
Parents from low-income families are often unable to provide adequate help and guidance to their children due to their limited education level. When filling in the college entrance examination or university majors, they may not have full knowledge and understanding, and often can only "see". This means that even if children enter society after graduation, they will not be able to provide effective help and support, and children can only struggle on their own, with no shortcuts.
4. Individual struggle and growth
Compared with the classmates around them, children from low-income families have to put in more effort to achieve their goals. They need to constantly surpass themselves, overcome difficulties, and strive to climb upwards. The emotion of the top students from the bottom families has revealed the pain of many parents from the bottom families, and they can feel this endless effort and hardship.
1. Enlightened parent education
Parents' three views and ways of thinking have an important impact on the growth of students. Enlightened parents are able to produce excellent students with good manners and civility. Therefore, parents need to pay attention to their own words and deeds, become a role model for their children's learning, and guide their children to develop good qualities and habits through positive behaviors.
2. Encouragement and affirmation
Parental encouragement and appreciation are essential to a child's development. The cultivation of good emotional values and self-confidence helps children to face difficulties positively and pursue their learning goals more diligently. Therefore, parents need to give their children timely affirmation and rewards, so that they can feel the joy and pride brought by their efforts and progress.
3. Moderate guidance
Parents are the navigators of their students' development, and their words and deeds have a profound impact on their children's development. However, parents should not control their children's lives excessively and should give them a moderate degree of freedom and independence. Children are also independent individuals, and they need to discover and explore on their own, so that they can develop independent thinking and innovation.
Times are constantly changing, and parents' educational thinking needs to keep pace with the times. Parents should abandon the traditional concept of education, let their children work hard and explore, and give them space and opportunities for their own development. Although family education has an important impact on the growth of students, in reality, many children from low-income families are still able to achieve counterattack through their own efforts. The role of parents is to give them positive guidance and support, so that they can understand that they can change their destiny through their own struggles. The most important thing is that parents should put their own mindset right, respect their children's choices and development, and work together with them to achieve common dreams.