Life is a long journey, with mountains, plains and valleys, deserts, oases and swamps, and of course, wind, frost, rain and snow.
This is all a normal thing, calm down, accept calmly, believe that everything is the best arrangement, do not be confused, do not complain, do not retreat, the road ahead will naturally open up.
As long as you keep going, you will be able to cross the ditches and bumps, step on the rugged and bumpy hills, cross the mountains and valleys, see the most beautiful scenery, and meet the best yourself.
Not complaining, is a person's good quality, but also a person's good attitude towards life, some things, some people, if you can't get used to it, but you can't change it, then change your mentality.
Complaining can't change any status quo or solve any problems, it will only fill yourself with negative energy, let others see jokes, and even provoke yourself to be right and wrong.
As the saying goes, those who have a heart are tired, those who have no heart don't care, it's better to change than to complain, it's better to be angry than to fight, it's better to let go of care, and maintain a peaceful state of mind in order to live calmly and comfortably.
No matter how big the difficulties are, no matter how big the blow is, as long as the goal and direction are identified, they will never give up easily.
Difficulties and predicaments are often temporary, and after experiencing loss, helplessness, troubles, regrets and pains, still not flinching and being able to walk on strongly, is the greatest success.
If you retreat when you encounter difficulties, no matter what you do, you are destined to fail, and you are destined to achieve nothing.
In this life, if fate gives you a low-profile background, as long as you refuse to give up and don't retreat easily, you will definitely be able to rely on your own efforts and dedication to create a high-profile life.
There is no smooth road in life, and in the adult world, there is no empathy, instead of complaining around, it is better to work silently, instead of being sad, it is better to relax and face reality optimistically.
Only by standing the test, not complaining, not giving up, can we usher in the most glorious moment of life and walk out of a road of happiness that belongs to usher.
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Wen Ling is a freelance writer whose works have been published in major newspapers and online platforms. This article is the author's original work and requires permission from the author.