"Harvard Family Motto" is a very famous family education book, with Harvard University's educational philosophy and values as the core, to convey a positive and enlightening family education ideas to readers. Among them, the phrase "the strong talk about persistence, and the weak talk about liking" is an important point in the "Harvard Family Motto", and it is also a sentence that many people like very much.
The meaning of this sentence is that only those who truly have the strength and determination will persevere in pursuing their goals, while those who do not have the strength and determination will only talk about their likes and dislikes and cannot stick to it. This sentence tells us that in order to become a strong person, we must have the spirit and courage to persevere, and constantly overcome difficulties and challenges in order to finally realize our dreams.
We also often encounter this situation in our lives. For example, some people like to work out, but they can't stick to it, go to the gym on a whim today, and give up tomorrow because they are lazy. Some people are able to persevere for a long time, no matter what difficulties and challenges they encounter, they can continue to exercise, and finally achieve a healthy body and a beautiful body. This is because the former is only a verbal liking, while the latter has the spirit and courage to persevere.
For example, we often encounter this situation in Xi. Some students like a certain subject very much, but they can't stick to it because of the difficulty of learning the Xi or the strict requirements of the teacher, and they don't get good grades in the end. Some students were able to persevere in their Xi, constantly overcome difficulties and challenges, and finally achieved excellent results. This is because the former is only a verbal liking, while the latter has the spirit and courage to persevere.
Therefore, the phrase "the strong talk about persistence, and the weak talk about liking" tells us that in order to become a real strong person, we must have the spirit and courage to persevere. No matter what difficulties and challenges you encounter, you will be able to persevere in pursuing your goals and ultimately achieve your dreams. At the same time, we must also learn to cherish our time and energy, not just lip service or three-minute heat, but really put in effort and sweat to pursue our goals.
So how can we have the spirit and courage to persevere?Here are some methods that may be useful:
Set clear goals. A clear goal can help us have a clearer understanding of what we want to pursue, so that we can be more motivated to pursue it. At the same time, the goals should be specific and achievable, not too vague or unrealistic.
Make a plan and stick to it. Having a specific plan can help us better manage our time and energy, while also motivating us to keep moving forward. In the process of executing the plan, we must always maintain patience and perseverance, and do not give up or slack easily.
Look for support and encouragement. In the pursuit of our goals, finding support and encouragement can help us better face difficulties and challenges. You can find like-minded friends or family members to encourage and support each other, or you can find professional teachers or mentors to give guidance and help.
Learn to self-motivate and adjust. In the process of pursuing our goals, we may encounter lows or setbacks, and we must learn to motivate and adjust ourselves. You can set yourself some small goals or rewards to motivate yourself to keep going, and at the same time, you must learn from your failures and constantly adjust your direction and methods.
In short, the phrase "the strong talk about persistence, and the weak talk about liking" tells us that in order to become a real strong person, we must have the spirit and courage to persevere. In the pursuit of goals, we need to learn to set clear goals, make plans and stick to them, find support and encouragement, and learn to motivate and adjust ourselves. Only in this way can we continue to overcome difficulties and challenges and finally realize our dreams.
Harvard Family Motto tells us that the highest level of companionship is: not only to have preaching, but also to have high-quality companionship, and to persist and grow together with children.
Growing up is really hard and tiring, when the child wants to give up, you may wish to train the child to learn and Xi together, "bitter" together, and persist together. When the child has your example, the child's heart is like a mirror, and he still has the face to give up?!
Finally, I would like to recommend this Harvard Family Motto to you, and I strongly recommend that you read it to your children. This is a must-read for children to become talents, and one of the best reads for you and your children to be reborn.
Before I saw this book, I was also a Buddhist parent, and I felt that it was more important to give my child a happy childhood, and after reading it, I was woken up fiercely, and it turned out that I was very wrong - not a chicken baby, the child is sweet is the present, and the bitter is the future;Chicken baby, the child is bitter in the present, but sweet in the future!