Parents often quarrel, will it cause psychological trauma to children?

Mondo Parenting Updated on 2024-01-29

1. Lack of security.

Parents often quarrel, which will cause children to suffer from the loss of their love for their parents, and they are always worried that their parents will be separated or not want themselves. Younger children may also think that their parents' quarrels are self-inflicted, which adds to the psychological burden. Being tormented by fear, anxiety and nervousness for a long time can make the child feel a serious lack of security.

2. Indifference to family affection.

Many people have said that when their parents quarrel, every minute is torment, and they wish they could escape from this home immediately, and many people have the idea of running away from home. Because I can't feel the warmth and harmony of home, I am also very indifferent to family affection, and it is difficult to be coquettish and willful in front of my parents, and I am even reluctant to go home for a long time after adulthood. Others have said that they hate their parents even more than they love.

3. The impact on children's interpersonal communication.

When parents quarrel frequently, interpersonal communication becomes a bad thing in the eyes of children, so that children are afraid to avoid it and close themselves off, so that they will become not good at interpersonal communication.

The family often quarrels, the parents themselves are a mess, they do not manage their own lives well, it is difficult to focus on the child, the child becomes lacking in love, he will look for other emotional sustenance, in order to get the love of others in interpersonal communication, he will become a pleasing character.

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