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After a woman in Jiangsu divorced her husband, she went to visit her eldest son, which made her burst into tears On a cold winter day, a woman in Jiangsu went to her ex-husband's house to visit her eldest son, but met him unexpectedly. ** It shows that the woman is carefully dressed, but she finds that her eldest son is wearing a thin sweater and walking home alone, which makes her heart twist. The eldest son looked a little embarrassed when he saw her, and politely listened to her tell him to wear more clothes, but he did not dare to approach.
At the same time, her youngest son was very happy when he saw his brother, but what made people feel distressed was that the contrast between the old sweater on his brother and his younger brother wearing a new set of clothes was embarrassing. Netizens left messages one after another, some questioned the woman's behavior, and some expressed understanding, showing different views and attitudes. The selfish behavior became the target of public criticism, and many netizens expressed dissatisfaction and criticism of the woman's behavior.
Some people accuse her of paying too much attention to her appearance but not caring about her children's lives, thinking that she should spend her energy and money on her children instead of only caring about her own beauty. In addition, there are also people who start from another case and condemn the harm done to the child by the selfish mother, believing that such behavior is a kind of harm to the child, and even giving up the right to visit the child. These statements all raised questions about the woman's actions, arguing that her actions were selfish and irresponsible.
The impact on the child: This divorce incident has undoubtedly had a profound impact on the child. The picture of the eldest son wearing only a thin sweater in the cold weather, and going home alone is distressing, and at the same time, it also makes people feel helpless about his mother's decision. His maturity shows a silence beyond his years, but it hides psychological uneasiness and sadness.
For the younger son, although he has strong feelings for his brother, he is unable to understand his brother's situation and his mother's behavior, and this family incompleteness brings him more confusion and uneasiness. The divorce incident not only brings psychological trauma to the children, but also gives unfair treatment in life, which is undoubtedly irresponsible and harmful to the children. The voice of positive energy is in the voice of doubt and criticism, and some netizens also expressed understanding and sympathy for the woman's behavior.
They pointed out that perhaps women also have their own difficulties and confusions, and criticism and accusation will not solve the problem, and more understanding and care are needed. At the same time, some people also call for the society to pay more attention to the children of divorced families, give them more care and support, so that they can grow up healthily and not be harmed by family changes. Summarizing and guiding comments on this incident not only let us see the plight of children in divorced families, but also let us feel the indifference and inadequacy of society towards family changes.
Perhaps we can think more about this and pay more attention to it, give them more understanding and help, so that every child can grow up in a healthy and warm environment. For such events and related issues, everyone is welcome to leave their own views and comments. Single-Parent Families: Is Parental Reunion the Only Option? Recently, a netizen named a woman posted about her inner conflict after her divorce. She said that she regretted the divorce, and her children's lives were affected because of the divorce.
It is understood that after the divorce of the woman, the child lives with the grandmother, because the grandmother is more frugal, the children's clothes are old and a little small, which makes people look distressed. However, it is worth noting that although the woman still has feelings for her ex-husband, she has not shown any desire to get back together with her ex-husband. The impact of family breakdownDivorce has a profound impact on children, especially in single-parent families, where children often face more psychological stress and low self-esteem.
Studies have shown that children from single-parent families are more likely to have behavioral problems and poor schoolwork. And the difficulties in food, clothing, housing and transportation described by the woman are even more worrying. Especially in the adolescent stage, children need more love and support in order to grow up healthily. Expectations for her parents In this incident, the woman still has feelings for her ex-husband, but she has not shown the willingness to get back together, which has attracted the attention and speculation of many netizens.
Some people believe that women should reconsider reuniting with their ex-husbands to create a better family environment for their children; And some people believe that getting back together does not necessarily bring benefits to the children, after all, the complexity of the relationship needs to be treated carefully. How to choose what is better for your childrenWhen facing the choice after the breakdown of the family, there are indeed many factors that need to be considered. Compounding is an option, but it's not the only one. Sometimes, for the sake of their child's growth and future, parents need to make more compromises and efforts.
Whether it is reunited or separated, the child's feelings and needs need to be fully considered. Tolerance and growth between parents are equally important for children. In general, in the face of problems caused by family breakdown, it is necessary for both parents to work together to create a better environment for their children to grow up. Whether it is reunited or separated, the well-being of the child needs to be the priority. It is hoped that women will be able to focus on the needs of their children in their future choices and make more responsible decisions.
What do you think of the woman's choice in this case? Do you think it is better for children to get back together or separate? Feel free to leave a comment to share your views.