My dear, do you feel that you are like being labeled, and you are "poor" everywhere you go?Let me start with myself. In the past, when I went to the supermarket, I could almost remember what was cheaper. One day I suddenly figured it out, and the search was endless, but I didn't see how good I was.
I have a good sister Umeko, who shared a dormitory with me when I was in college. At that time, she was very frugal, she went out to buy cheaply, and even the rice was the most affordable kind, I still remember that she used to eat only two vegetarian dishes per meal every day for half a month, which added up to no more than one dollar. As a result, after work, she suddenly let go, suddenly changed gears, willing to spend money on herself, when she fell in love, she was seen by her well-born husband, and later the work became more and more smooth, as a department director in a large central enterprise, and now she has several properties in her hands, and her family career is proud.
So, this matter made me ponder for a long time before I figured it out, it turned out that if we took away the sense of picking on our bodies, we might be able to become rich. You see, in the past, when wages rose, there were two more dollars in your pocket, but did you dare to spend it?Do you always want to save more money to feel safe?Especially in the past few years, there have been more and more uncertain things, and you don't dare to spend more money, right?
Actually, I'm not telling you to spend money indiscriminately, but don't always think about saving up and treating yourself too badly. Like me, an elder who has saved a lifetime, and occasionally goes out for a good meal, he has to think of us from head to toe. Life is alive, how long will she live to her age (in her 70s?).But she has been used to saving, she never knows what to enjoy, spending a little more money will make her full of guilt, thinking that this money should not be spent, and she can't help but keep thinking about it, and as a result, even a large table of people is not interested in eating, and the people who spend money to entertain are not good.
Compared with men, women have to suffer a lot more grievances and injustices in the family and society in this life, so we must learn to enjoy it properly, even you are not good to yourself, who else is good to you?You don't have to wait for enough money to be around, you can also get yourself something of good quality first, and be willing to love your own woman, so that you will not have a sense of lack of money and guilt, and you will not feel that you don't deserve it. So when Meizi meets a man with a good family condition and a lot of hers, she will confidently feel that she is good enough, deserving, and worth having. In fact, Meizi is not a very beautiful woman, but her husband said that he was attracted by her downfall and generosity first, and the more she came into contact, the more she found that she was very thoughtful and connotative.
One study says that people who are willing to spend money on themselves are more likely to succeed. You see, those rich people don't dress casually, they must be decent, and no matter how much money they have, they know that they have to spend it on the blade. There is another point to remind everyone, don't always try to take advantage of small advantages. A relative of mine, he once set up an early morning in order to catch up with a discount, but he didn't save a few dollars. Come to think of it, that time and energy were wasted, and it wasn't worth it.
Okay, it's time for the cliché, how can you get rid of the sense of picking on your body?First of all, we have to change our mindset. You have to understand that money has to flow, it's not a stone or an iron piece, just leave it there. The more you spin it, the more it will take you to a different place.
Then, you have to act. Start small. Go out for a meal and pick a better place;To buy something, you might as well take a look at ***;There is also traveling, trying to go to the place you want to stay in.
Finally, it's persistence. This doesn't happen overnight. You have to give yourself a little bit, tell yourself repeatedly in your heart that you are awesome and that you deserve to be treated better, and then take long-term action to consolidate. Gradually, you will find that in the eyes of others, you are very different from before, and you have become more confident and generous. The trick I'm talking about is the key to opening the door to becoming rich. Believe me, as long as you dare to spend, then you dare to earn. The energy of money will flow back, and everything has a law of attraction.
At the end of the day, I didn't have anything to say. I wish everyone can get rid of the sense of picking on their bodies as soon as possible. From now on, you and I are rich people with a lot of money and money!Our days will only be more and more exciting, this wallet, laughing every day haha. Give yourself a little confidence, don't worry, let's take our time!
Minimalist living