Yu Minhong said: "The suffering in life is endless, no matter how rich, how successful, how social status you have, you can't get rid of it." "After solving a problem, there are definitely bigger and even more problems waiting for you.
I think one of the good things about not having money is that you fantasize about how good it would be if you had money one day, but once you have money and everything, you find that it's still painful and then you despair. So what matters is not the difficulties, the suffering, the pain, but the ability and wisdom to deal with it all, if you don't and don't, life is really boring!”
Life is a process of constant suffering, like climbing a mountain, wading through a jungle, and more thorns waiting for you. "A thousand stones turn uncertainly, and the lost flowers and oblique stones are clear", the road is difficult, and it seems that there will never be a flat time.
Life is hard, only to cross.
And the best way to cross over is to cultivate your own mind. The objective world is a given, we will not be diverted by people's will, we will face everything we encounter with a positive and optimistic attitude.
When pain comes, you accept it calmly, learn to let go, and live in peace with it.
When Su Shi was serving as a taishou in Huzhou, suddenly several ** from the imperial court came to Yamen, and they couldn't help but tell him, so they locked him up, and then escorted him north and put him in prison.
Even if he survived, he was expelled from Huangzhou by the imperial court, and his future was dark.
From the noble officials brought by the benevolent officials, to the ministers who wore crimes in the deserted penal colonies, from the great talents of famous Beijing, to the people who asked people for directions, Su Shi has experienced all the hardships, how sad it is!
However, he did not complain about heaven and earth, did not sigh, did not be depressed, and drowned his sorrows with wine, but calmly accepted the suffering of God, and carefully managed the current day with a transparent and open-minded attitude.
He traveled in Huangzhou, looking for fairies, chanting poems, planting flowers, and enjoying himself. In addition, he also studied various cuisines attentively and became a super foodie in the food industry, thanks to Dongpo meat and Dongpo elbow.
Lin Yutang commented that Su Shi was a hopeless optimist.
Many times, fate is not very kind to us, and even the source is difficult for us. The more persistent you are, the more unwilling you are, and the more dangerous your situation becomes.
If the heart is sunny, there is no need to be sad.
From the heart, the environment turns.
The kind of attitude you have towards the world is the kind of world you have.
When suffering hits you, your mentality is not good, you are sensitive and fragile, you will be hammered flat, depressed, and completely sunk. If your heart is strong enough to reconcile with fate and let go, then no amount of twists and turns will torment you.
The heart is big, but the things are small. The heart is small and the world is big.
Except for life and death, everything else is a scratch.
No matter how many tribulations you encounter, don't be afraid, don't care, don't care, live as you should.
The benevolent are not worried, the wise are not confused, and the brave are not afraid.
Develop a positive, optimistic, extremely strong heart that calmly faces what happens in life, allows it to happen, and believes that all encounters are God's fulfillment of you.
For the rest of my life, I will take care of myself and improve my abilities and wisdom to face the storms of life. Don't be in a hurry, don't be afraid, be yourself calmly.