My cousin is 30 years old this year, and he is a proper older young man in the countryside, and the children of his two older sisters are in school, but his life events have not been resolved, and he has become a heart disease of his uncle and aunt.
Finally, a friend introduced him to a partner, a 26-year-old girl who worked in a street office in the city, and looked at her cousin and talked for a while.
Although the woman is not established, but backed by the country, it is also a relatively stable job, the woman's parents are not satisfied after seeing the cousin once, they feel that he does not have a stable job is unreliable, and they want their daughter to find a civil servant or a public institution The object is more reliable, but fortunately, the girl likes her cousin, although her parents do not support it, but she has been insisting on talking to him.
After the cousin and aunt found out, they felt that girls were rare, and they were even more afraid that they would miss the village and not have this shop, so they urged their cousins to get married.
It has reached the point of talking about marriage, and the woman's attitude has softened, but don't talk about the bride price or anything, you have to buy a suite in the city when you open your mouth, and you can accept a loan, but the down payment cannot be less than fifty percent.
The attitude of the woman's parents is understandable, after all, there is more than one million yuan for a house in the urban area, if you only pay a down payment, you will pay tens of thousands of yuan every month, and the quality of life is still thereNot asking for the full payment of the room is already considerate of the daughter.
But this condition also stumped the cousin and aunt's family, the family has been farming for generations, except for a few acres of land and a mountain, there is nothing valuable at all, and the money kept for the elderly is just an occasional subsidy for the two daughters, where is the money to support the cousin to buy a house?Only dry staring.
An ordinary three-bedroom in the urban area, fifty percent of the down payment is at least about 800,000, the cousin borrowed a circle, plus his own savings, the girl secretly lent him money, adding up to only about 500,000, there is a gap of 300,000, what should I do?
I really couldn't borrow it, my uncle and aunt couldn't sleep night after night, and my hair was much grayer.
My cousin's eyes were red, and he went home to discuss with his cousin: "Dad, how much land is there at home?"”
Uncle Cousin was a little ignorant: "Seven or eight acres, what's wrong?"”
The cousin struggled for a long time before he said: "Archie lost the gambling money back then, did his family rely on selling land to pay off the debt?"”
Archie is a gambler in their village, the addiction is even bigger, there is no money on him, he borrowed more than 100,000 yuan from various online loans and lost all of them, and was chased to the village by being chased by debts, Archie's father was afraid that his son would be hacked to death, so he reluctantly sold three acres of land, 50,000 yuan per acre, and made up 150,000 yuan to pay it back.
Since then, Archie has become synonymous with a loser in the village.
Hearing that his son wanted to sell the land, the cousin's heart suddenly became entangled: "Son, it's easy to sell this land, but it's difficult to buy it back." ”
The cousin's eyes were red: "I know." But I can't help it, there is still a difference of 300,000, in addition to the land at home is still worth some money, I don't know if I can go to ** make up. ”
There are several highways in the village, and a lot of land has been expropriated from the villagers, and now there are not many people who still have seven or eight acres of land like my cousin's family, but the less land there is, the more valuable it will definitely be in the future, and once it is sold, it will never be returned.
Some of these lands have been used as orchards, some have dug ponds, and there are still three or four acres left to grow rice and peanuts as rations every year.
But if it is not sold, the only son may not be able to get married, and if he can't get married and have children, the incense in the family will be broken.
In the end, the desire for his son to marry outweighed his reluctance to give up the land, and the cousin decided to sell the land.
When the two daughters found out, they immediately went back to their parents' house to persuade their cousin: "Dad, you have sold all the land, how can you live in the future?"”
Uncle Cousin was smoking a cigarette, and his face was full of sadness: "If you don't sell it, don't you see that your brother can't marry his daughter-in-law and can't get married?"”
The second daughter immediately said: "Just make a down payment to sell the land and sell the land, this is just to buy a house, do you need money for decoration?"How much does the bride price cost?The woman didn't mention these conditions at all, but our family had already sold the most valuable things, and what else could they sell if they asked for more?”
Uncle Tang said: "If you don't sell the land, do you have a way to get 300,000 yuan for your brother?"If you don't, don't mention it. ”
The two daughters are not married very well, and all the money they can take out has been lent to their younger brother, and the eldest daughter said sadly: "Dad, think about it again, as long as this land is sold, there will be no more ancestors for generations, what will you eat then?"After the younger brother buys a house, he will definitely settle down in the city in the future, but now the young people don't like to live with the elderly, so they can only leave you in the village, but you have no land, no income, and you can't even grow food, all rely on the younger brother to raise it alone, and after a long time, I am afraid that even the younger brother will have opinions......”
What the two daughters said was not unreasonable, the cousins and aunts were in a dilemma, sighing all day long, but in the end they gritted their teeth and sold half of them, leaving half of them.
With the 200,000 yuan that his parents made up from selling land, his cousin was in tears, but he knew that this was already the help that his uncle and aunt did their best to help him, in order not to drag down his son's future life, the two old people left a few acres of land to grow food, so as not to even eat rice and ask his son for money.
If it were you, would you sell?