There is still such an operation?Sometimes men try not to take the initiative, and women will like him more!
I used to think that love requires a man to take the initiative to win a woman's heart. But recently I've found that if a man is too proactive, women will find him attractive and challenging enough.
On the contrary, if a man can not take the initiative, properly maintain a certain sense of mystery, and let the woman guess his mind, then the woman will like him more and want to get closer to him.
Why is this so?According to my observation, this is because women naturally like the feeling of being pursued, and if a man is too proactive, the woman will feel that he is not valuable enough and challenging enough.
On the contrary, if a man can properly maintain a certain sense of mystery and let the woman guess his mind, then the woman will feel that he is more attractive and worth pursuing.
For example, if a man wants to pursue a woman, he can show his interest appropriately, but not too proactively, not too passionately.
He can chat with the woman first, find out her interests and hobbies, and then give her some hints appropriately to let her guess what is on her mind.
In this way, the woman will find the man interesting and challenging, and she will like him more and want to be close to him more.
In today's society, everyone attaches great importance to equality between men and women, and they all yearn for freedom. Emotionally, both boys and girls have the right to take the initiative to pursue love.
We also often hear girls say that they like to take the initiative and think that they are very manly and secure.
But in fact, when a boy pursues a girl too actively, he is often rejected by the girl or issued a good person card. So, the key is for boys to master the goodness in the process of pursuing girls:
1. No matter how active a boy is with the girl he likes, don't stick to her all day long.
Give the girl enough freedom and enough time to do her own thing. Just like flying a kite, as long as the string is in your hand, no matter how high and far she flies, it will eventually return to you.
2. In the process of pursuing girls, boys should not deliberately ask about the privacy of girls.
For example, don't always ask what she's doing, who she's with, and so on. You just have to do your own thing, do what you should do as a boyfriend, and she will naturally tell you what the girl is willing to let you know. And this respect and trust of yours will also make girls feel more favorable.
3. Boys should have their own interests, hobbies, specialties and earning skills.
In this highly competitive society, only continuous learning and progress can better survive.
When you have your own strengths and are good at making money, not only can girls be impressed by you, but also make you have more confidence and charm.
Comprehensive analysis, boys should be measured when pursuing girls, and they must grasp the heat, so as to better attract girls!
Do you understand?It's the kind of guy who won't take the initiative to do it, but after the girl proposes it, he will do it without saying a word, and the effect will directly meet the girl's requirements.
And those boys who are enthusiastic from the beginning, girls feel that they are not sincere enough, after all, love needs to be trickle, not a momentary enthusiasm.
On the contrary, this kind of boy who is not so enthusiastic and active gives girls more room for imagination. Documenting my romantic life Girls can't help but guess what he likes about themselves, they want to know more about him, and they will also be more attentive to him.
Therefore, sometimes men do not need to be too proactive, but should give girls a little more time and space, which may have unexpected effects.