To make your husband less aggressive, you need some communication and gradual adjustments:
Communication and understanding:Communicate openly and honestly with your husband and express your feelings about his aggressive behavior. Understand why he behaves aggressively and understand his views and ideas.
Building an Equal Relationship:Emphasize the importance of equality and mutual respect. Create an atmosphere of equality at home and in everyday life, so that he knows that you are also an independent and assertive individual.
Cooperation and compromise:Advocate cooperation and compromise in decision-making and problem solving. Respect each other's opinions and find solutions that are acceptable to both parties.
Encourage the expression of emotions:Encourage him to be more open about his emotions and needs, and let him know that being strong is not always the best way to solve problems.
Demonstration mildness and softness:Respond to his aggressive behavior in a gentle, gentle manner. Be rational and calm, and avoid responding in a drastic or challenging manner.
Seek professional help:If the problem is more serious, you may need to seek relationship counseling or psychological counseling, and seek professional advice and help.
It is important for him to know that being strong does not always apply in all situations and that a more equal and respectful attitude is needed in the family and in relationships. At the same time, be clear about your needs and expectations, so that he understands your desire for an equal relationship.