A line in the TV series "The World" touched me deeply: "They are all raised by a father and a mother, and I have no interest, do you know how uncomfortable I am?"My biggest wish in life is to satisfy my parents. This quote speaks to the hearts of many children who are not favored by their parents. In a family with many children, it is often difficult for parents to balance balance, and there is always one child who is the least welcome to his parents. They crave the love of their parents, but they are often snubbed by their parents, which chills their hearts. I was rightAffectionI had expectations, but after a serious illness, I saw through itAffection, my heart is chilling. Here's my story.
Lomé is a child of four older sisters and is the youngest daughter in the family. Her birth did not bring joy to her parents, on the contrary, her birth made her mother sad. She often feels that she is superfluous, why do her parents always treat her partially?She feels that she is very filial, why are her parents still dissatisfied?She asked her parents many times, but she couldn't get a clear answer. She gradually became disappointed, and her expectations of her parents faded.
Luo Mei's life was destined to be unfortunate, and she was carried by her grandfather to the Yangtze River shortly after she was born and thrown away. However, she was lucky enough to be picked up by an old woman and grew up under her care. But as the old woman got older, Lomé's life became more and more difficult. It was at this time that Lomé's biological parents suddenly appeared and claimed that they could not raise Lomé and now wanted to make amends to her. Lomé longs for the love of her parents in her heart and is happy with the appearance of her biological parents. She felt that as long as she was kind to her parents, they would return her love. However, Lomé gradually discovers that her biological parents are just trying to take advantage of her and extract benefits from her. She was very disappointed and chilled.
Lomé had wanted to reconcile with her biological parents, but her sisters were cold and ruthless to her. At a mother's birthday party, Lomé went to visit her biological parents with a carefully selected gift. However, she was treated as air by her mother, and her father sneered at her. Lomé felt very sad, and she realized that no matter how hard she tried, she could not change the true face of her family. She realizedAffectionIt's not as beautiful as she thinks, but realistic and cruel.
Lomé gradually becomes cold and distant, and she no longer seeks the attention and approval of her parents. She decided to work her own and live the life she loved, no longer relying on the love and approval of her parents. She began to live independently, pursued her dreams, and slowly found her own happiness.
AffectionIt's an important part of life, but it doesn't mean everyone can be completeAffection。Some people may be snubbed or even abandoned by their parents. This gave them chills and disappointments, but it also trained them to be strong and independent. Even if we don't get the love of our parents, we can find our own happiness and recognition through our own efforts and struggles. AffectionIt is complex and contradictory, and we need to learn to accept and face it, but also learn to be independent and grow.