"Even if you are the first from the bottom of the exam, don't make up the class", the reason given by the 20-year teacher is very correct
The trend of cram classes is becoming more and more intense, and whenever children are picked up from school, small advertisements on the roadside are posted in a competitive manner, and all kinds of cram schools have emerged.
Parents are concerned about their children, "Is there anyone else in your class who is making up the lessons?"The child could only smile helplessly and replied: "There have always been, but some are a little low-key." ”
Therefore, reducing the academic burden is not an overnight task. Some parents may have the misconception that their children can quickly improve their grades as long as they tutor. In fact, this is not the case, and even if some children continue to participate in tutoring, it is difficult to see significant improvement, and even if they try to make up for it, it is difficult to close the gap in grades.
At a parent-teacher meeting, the child's homeroom teacher said, "Even if the child does poorly in the exam, it is not encouraged to make up the class. "This makes me feel that this class teacher, who has been teaching for 20 years, really has an open concept of education.
However, not long after, a parent questioned this: if the child is not given make-up lessons, and the child's grades are the first, how can it be improved?
Faced with the parents' doubts, the experienced head teacher responded calmly: "Even if the child is the penultimate in the exam, it is not recommended to make up the class, otherwise the child's grades will only decline further and cannot be improved at all." ”
The experienced homeroom teacher offers some compelling reasons:
Cram schools** are expensive, put financial pressure on parents, and easily lead to unnecessary nagging.
Children may seem simple and innocent, but in fact, some children may be born with a heavy mind, but parents do not realize it. Therefore, once parents sign up for cram schools for their children, spend a lot of money, and feel the financial burden, it is easy to place too high expectations on their children and keep nagging, such as saying to their children: "For you, my mother has done her best, and I spent so much money to attend such an expensive cram school, you must fight for my mother!".”
Parents expect their children to reciprocate through grades, but the most important thing to improve their children's academic performance is to maintain a state of happy learning. Only in a relaxed environment, children study hard, and it is easier to improve their grades. If parents only rely on expensive tuition courses, parents will pass on all the pressure to their children, and their children's psychological state will become bad, and they will have rebellious feelings towards learning, and it will become difficult to improve their grades.
3-hour cram school, long cycle, slow effect.
The veteran homeroom teacher also mentioned that if you want to improve your child's grades through cram classes, it really takes a long time, and the time for the effect to be significant is very slow.
The reason is simple: most cram schools only have one or two classes a week, and each time is only three hours long. Considering that the child is studying all day at school, the physical and mental state is tired. It is basically unrealistic to want a child to study for another three hours in a tired state. After all, children have limited attention spans and are in a state of reduced concentration, and it is not easy to remember what they learn.
Therefore, the senior homeroom teacher advises that even if the child does not do well in the exam, do not rush to arrange a make-up class for the child. We should look for other ways to let children learn independently in a state of physical and mental pleasure and without tiredness, so that it is more effective to improve their grades. In most cases, children will be better off studying in this state than attending a three-hour cram school.
Children often run blindly in the learning process and lack scientific learning methods, just like farmers who do not sharpen their knives before chopping firewood. Sharpening a knife is not a mistake for a woodcutter, this sentence perfectly illustrates the importance of learning methods.
If children blindly study blindly, even if they participate in cram schools day after day, it may not be effective. On the contrary, some children have not participated in tutoring despite their lowest test scores, and with the good learning methods summarized by parents and teachers, they have successfully counterattacked and made rapid progress.
It can be seen that blind learning is meaningless for children, and no amount of tutoring is as effective as mastering scientific learning methods.
A senior class teacher shared a real-life case: there was a student named Wang Hua in the class he led, Wang Hua was not interested in learning, but his mother did not give up. His mother enrolled Wang Hua in three different cram schools, taking turns six days a week, and constantly told him that he had to study hard, which made Wang Hua feel very frustrated.
However, despite spending a lot of money to attend cram schools and supervising Wang Hua's studies, his grades are still at the bottom. Finally, Wang Hua's mother turned to the head teacher for help, stating the actual situation in detail, saying that the child now has a good learning attitude, but the grades are still not satisfactory, and asked the teacher to give guidance and propose ways to improve the child's performance.
The homeroom teacher made an in-depth analysis of Wang Hua's learning situation, and the key problem was that the child did not master the scientific learning method and was still learning blindly. For attending a three-hour cram school a day, the effect was not significant.
In contrast, it may be more effective for children to read books that improve their learning ability. If a child can learn and apply the learning methods summarized by the top students, they can often significantly improve their grades more than attending cram schools.
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