Since the beginning of this year's freshman season, a parent of a new student has noticed a shocking phenomenon: the proportion of boys far exceeds that of girls among all new students, resulting in a serious imbalance between men and women. This problem is not only in this school, but has become a social phenomenon on a national scale. In addition, some professionals have analyzed that this phenomenon originated from the fact that after the country relaxed the birth policy, many families did whatever it took to have a boy. They use the excuse of having children and having children, but they don't want to create trouble for themselves in the end.
It can be said that the "Queen Mother" got their wish, but they may not have thought about how difficult it might be for these children to find a daughter-in-law when they grow up. Today's post-90s and post-00s girls don't attach much importance to marriage, not to mention that more than ten years later, girls may be more cautious about marriage, or even avoid talking about it. Therefore, these parents have committed their own sins, and they will eventually have to suffer.
In addition to the imbalance between men and women, parents have also found another serious problem: there is a serious shortage of primary school enrollment places in many parts of the country, which cannot meet the enrollment needs of local school-age children. In the past, the shortage of enrollment places was mainly concentrated in local key primary schools, and parents competed for places in a few good schools, while the enrollment places in ordinary schools were relatively relaxed. However, this has changed since the start of enrollment in elementary schools in 2023.
Professional analysis pointed out that the year of birth of the class of 2023 happened to be a key year for the country to relax the birth policy, and the proportion of boys in the second child born to parents was much higher than that of girls. As a result, the majority of this year's new students are boys, resulting in an imbalance between men and women in the first grade of elementary school. This has also made matters worse for ordinary schools, which were already short of places, and parents had to go around in order to keep their children in school.
In the minds of most parents, as long as they send their children to school, they are given full authority to the teachers. However, this is not the case. Although teachers will try to treat every student equally, they will also pay attention to parents' attitudes towards Xi. Parents who ignore their teachers' efforts and do not pay attention to their children's learning Xi often do not receive the attention of teachers.
Family education plays an important role in children's growth, it not only cultivates children's character and temperament, but also establishes the correct three views for them. If parents do not have enlightened elders and cannot provide a good family education environment, children are prone to extreme and harm themselves or others in the process of growing up. These effects can be problematic for children throughout their lives.
Therefore, parents should be aware that their selfish behavior can have a negative impact on the lives of the younger generation. Patriarchy is not true love, but a burden and a burden. We should provide an open and equal environment for children to grow up in, and let them freely choose their own path in life.
Although the society in which we live is becoming more open and egalitarian, certain feudal ideas still exist. Patriarchy is not only an unfair treatment of women, but also a preference for men. This belief stems from outdated traditional thinking that only boys can inherit the family business and continue the incense.
However, modern society has changed dramatically. The rise of women's careers, the sharing of family responsibilities, and the change of the concept of marriage have all made the concept of preference for sons gradually abandoned. Men and women should be treated equally, and everyone should have equal opportunities and choices.
Finally, we hope that this imbalance will arouse more people's attention and reflection. The imbalance between men and women does not only affect individual families, but also has a long-term impact on social stability and harmony. We should strive to break the shackles of feudal thinking, establish a modern family concept, and create a better environment for the next generation to grow up. Only in this way can real equality between men and women and social progress be achieved.