Life is hard, but the struggle is worth it
"Love brain" is an internet buzzword that refers to those who put all their energy and heart into love and lovers as soon as they fall in love. These people are willing to pay some expensive price in exchange for the other party's satisfaction, companionship, etc., such as giving up a job opportunity to accompany the other party, and everything they do is for the other party (such as making great concessions for the good of the other party), and they do not appear once or twice, but often have such thoughts.
There are several reasons for the formation of the "love brain".
Insecurity in childhood and adolescence: Home and school are the main places of personal growth, and some people may be insecure in this process, lacking the love and care of their parents or teachers, leading them to seek security and dependence in romantic relationships.
Understanding Love in Traditional Culture: In traditional Chinese culture, marriage is seen as the continuation and maintenance of a family relationship, not just an emotional bond between individuals. This perception can lead some people to place a special emphasis on romantic relationships and be willing to give everything for each other.
The Influence of Social and Internet Culture: The rise of social and online culture has made it easier for people to form romantic relationships, but this kind of quickly established romantic relationships may cause some people to fall into love prematurely without enough time and opportunity to get to know each other, thus forming a "love brain".
The influence of personality traits: Some people are born with a love-paying personality, they are willing to give more in love, and they are more likely to be controlled by love emotions, so they are prone to the situation of "love brain".
In order to say goodbye to the "love brain", the following measures can be taken:
Pay attention to your own emotions and feelings, and avoid mental exhaustion.
Follow your heart's thoughts and don't be accommodating.
Learn to analyze problems rationally from the perspective of a bystander.
Build self-confidence and recognize your strengths.
Don't lift each other too high and get along as equals.
Be self-motivated and strive to improve yourself.
Less unrealistic fantasies and more focus on reality.
Have your own life and social circle.
Develop hobbies and distract appropriately.
Learn to go with the flow.