The phrase "the housekeeping industry is full of chaos" can be said to be a true portrayal of today's housekeeping industry. With the continuous development of society, the demand for housekeeping industry is also increasing. However, with the increase in demand, there are more and more chaos in the housekeeping industry, and it is difficult to find good aunts, but there are many bad aunts. Zhao Huiping met such a bad aunt, this bad aunt loves to play mahjong, but neglects the work she should do, one of the chaos in the housekeeping industry is this irresponsible attitude. The family that Zhao Huiping encountered is also a typical case of chaos in the housekeeping industry. Juanjuan's mother played mahjong outside every day, resulting in a lack of good aunts to take care of the housework and children, which is also very common in some housekeeping companies. In order to make more profits, many housekeeping companies will choose some aunts who do not pay much attention to their work attitude, and ignore the assessment of their quality, work experience and professional skills. This will not only affect the quality of life of customers, but also affect the credibility of the housekeeping industry. However, in the chaos of these housekeeping industries, there are also some excellent housekeeping aunts. Just like Aunt Guixiang that Zhao Huiping met, this aunt is very meticulous and emotional.
She will not only do the housework and take care of the children, but also cook some side dishes for the customers to make the lives of the customers more colorful. Many families hope to find such an excellent aunt, but among the many housekeeping aunts, it is very scarce. To sum up, the existence of chaos in the housekeeping industry has made many families feel distressed. However, we cannot deny the entire housekeeping industry because of the irresponsibility of a few aunts. We should strengthen the management and supervision of housekeeping aunts, so that the housekeeping industry becomes more standardized and orderly. At the same time, we should also praise those excellent housekeeping aunts, so that they can get more recognition and respect. Juanjuan's words revealed a sense of helplessness and powerlessness, and her heart was full of various emotional entanglements and contradictions. Her mother kept blaming her, hoping that she would come back to see her, but Juanjuan was reluctant because she felt that going back would only make her more miserable. In fact, everyone has their own path in life. Some people are happy, some are miserable, and some are bland. Juanjuan's life is not easy, she has experienced a lot of pain and misfortune in the past years, which makes her full of an indifferent attitude towards life.
Juanjuan's mother has been worried about her and hopes that she can live a better life. But Juanjuan was reluctant to go back to see her family because she felt that she had a life of her own, and she didn't want to reminisce about the pain of the past. Juanjuan's mother was disappointed, she felt that her daughter had become a stranger to her. She hopes that Juanjuan can return to her family and start a new life. Everyone has their own path to follow in life, and sometimes we need to go back in time to face what we have been through and rediscover ourselves. When we are able to look at the past from a new perspective, we may find ourselves with a more positive and optimistic attitude towards life. What Juanjuan needs is understanding and love, not blame and pressure. After all, everyone has their own path in life, and we need to give each other more support and encouragement. "The Heartache of the White Lotus" family disputes are problems that every family may face. In a family conversation, we were able to get a glimpse of the contradictions and entanglements within the family. Juanjuan tried to ask the doubts in her heart, she wondered if there was a hidden pain behind her mother's "White Lotus" tolerance.
The mother's answer was embarrassing, she chose silence, patience, and helplessness. And this helplessness is often the result of being bound by worldliness and morality. Behind family conflicts, there are often more unspeakable sufferings. Juanjuan tried to understand her mother's heart, but only got more conjectures and questions. The mother's silence may be a kind of protection, but also a kind of regret. How many bitter and imperceptible tears are hidden behind her mother's smile? In another scene, the dialogue between Zhao Huiping and Guixiang also makes people feel the pressure of family and life. Zhao Huiping's honesty and truthfulness are moving, and she admits that she is always emotional and uses too much force. In the housekeeping industry, she felt the tremendous pressure from the environment, as well as her inner struggles and contradictions. And the peace and indifference of Guixiang seems to be a kind of open-mindedness and tolerance of life. Family and life are inescapable realities for everyone. In these conversations, we may find our own shadow, or we may feel the same pain and powerlessness. But it is this kind of resonance and understanding that makes us cherish the current life more and cherish the family and friendship around us more.
Perhaps, family disputes do not have to have a result, nor do they have to have a solution. Perhaps, we just need to listen with our hearts, understand with our hearts, and tolerate with our hearts, and this is enough. The ups and downs of life may only need us to feel, experience, and experience with our hearts, which is the most real life. Perhaps, we need to be more attentive to feel the warmth of the family, to feel the beauty of life, and to feel the sincerity of emotions. With our hearts, let us know how to cherish more, know how to tolerate more, and know how to be grateful. The helplessness and ups and downs in fate require us to face them with our hearts, understand them with our hearts, and accept them with our hearts. Perhaps, this is the truest portrayal of family and life, the most intimate expression, and the deepest emotional sustenance. Attentively, feel the warmth of the family, feel the beauty of life, and be attentive to tolerate, to understand, and to cherish. This may be our best response to family and life, the most sincere presentation. Zhao Huiping, a diligent and down-to-earth housekeeping aunt, she does every family's housework with her heart, regards her employer's home as her own home, and uses her true feelings to influence every employer and family member. Her conversation with her colleague Guixiang is quite touching.
Guixiang told Zhao Huiping that no one can do without anyone, the boss has money, and he can find any kind of person. Although this statement is somewhat realistic, it also speaks to the employment relationship between modern people. In this world, a job may only be temporary, but everyone should do it with their hearts, treat work as a career, and treat the employer as a home. Zhao Huiping also discovered a phenomenon, even rich families will have a lot of troubles and disputes, sometimes the richer the more right and wrong. She has also encountered many problems and difficulties in her work, but she uses her wisdom and courage to face them, and uses her true feelings to influence and solve them. Zhao Huiping's mentality is also very peaceful, she thinks, isn't it all the same to **? Every family will have the same people, the same things, the same gossip, and the same life. But as long as you work hard, you can make yourself feel better. In her heart, every employer and family member is a person worthy of respect, and she is willing to work with them to build a better home. Zhao Huiping also has an admirable quality, that is, she uses her enthusiastic care and attention to make every family's children can get better growth and education.
She will love and care for her children as if they were her own children in her work, so that they can grow up healthy and happy. In short, Zhao Huiping is a housekeeping aunt worthy of respect and admiration, she uses her true feelings and courage to face the difficulties and problems at work, and uses her enthusiastic care and attention to make every family feel her warmth and intimacy. She is a typical housekeeping worker, and her qualities and spirit are worth learning from Xi and understanding. Title: Family Entanglement: Family Conflict Between Parents and Children On a late weekend night, the atmosphere at home became a little tense. At 12 o'clock, Juanjuan's mother told Juanjuan about her indulgence in the children. Juanjuan believes that weekends are a time for children to relax and should not interfere too much. The dispute between the two gradually escalated, and Juanjuan even threatened her mother with the matter of the family property, which caused the atmosphere to be even more tense. Juanjuan's mother also became emotionally unstable, and when Juanjuan stopped talking to her, she vented her emotions to others, revealing her harsh and tolerant personality. Such quarrels and family conflicts also make other family members feel stressed.
However, such family conflicts exist in many families, and communication and conflicts between parents and children are common problems in families. Everyone has their own thoughts and emotions, but how to communicate and resolve conflicts appropriately is crucial. It is hoped that every family can work together to create a harmonious and warm family atmosphere on the basis of respect and understanding. How to make children love breakfastBreakfast is the most important meal of the day, but many children don't like to eat breakfast, or even skip breakfast. Such a situation is very dangerous because skipping breakfast can lead to problems in all aspects of the body. So, how do you make your child love breakfast? First of all, making a good breakfast is essential. Children love to eat food that looks good, smells good, and is delicious. So, we have to put some effort into making breakfast and make food that the kids will love. For example, you can put some honey on top of the eggs to upgrade the taste of the eggs and make the children like them more. Also, try some new breakfast recipes like fried dumplings, toast, etc. These foods look appetizing, and children will eat sweetly when they see them. Secondly, it is possible to prepare breakfast with the children. This way, the children will enjoy breakfast even more.
They can help bake bread and fry dumplings, which not only increases the children's appetite but also strengthens the parent-child relationship. Finally, be sure to stick to breakfast. Let the children get into the Xi of eating breakfast. Breakfast is the most important meal of the day and is also the time when we need to give our body plenty of energy. So, be sure to keep the kids on breakfast. In life, we should pay attention to children's eating habits Xi and provide them with high-quality food. Making them fall in love with breakfast plays a very important role in their growth and development. Title: Making breakfast with all my heart, but being treated indifferently by my family triggered my thinkingThis morning, I carefully prepared a hearty breakfast, but I was indifferent and disgusted by the children, which made me feel very lost.
The baby said that my breakfast was "so unpalatable, the honey always had a strange taste, I couldn't stand it!" Qibao also said, "I don't like it either, it's everywhere, and it's awkward to eat!" I don't eat! In the end, Zhao Huiping gave a portion to Guixiang, but she said: "I will never try it again in the future, two slices of bread are enough, and they will be able to eat bread!" In this case, when I was cleaning up the dishes, Juanjuan came out, looked at me, did not speak, took a glass of water, and went back to the room. I didn't care, and I didn't think much of it. However, when Juanjuan walked out of the room again, she said to me, "I saw you eating with the children in your pajamas in the morning!" Do you know why I ignored you? You're working, not in your own home, isn't it too casual and relaxing to wear pajamas? "It turned out that Juanjuan didn't allow me to wear pajamas. Later, I learned that when we were doing housekeeping and participating in training, the teacher had told us: "Pajamas can also be home clothes, that is, your work clothes, go into the house to change clothes, wash hands and disinfect, go out to change clothes, and you are not allowed to work at home in outdoor clothes!" "For this purpose, I deliberately purchased two sets of conservative loungewear.
I apologized to Juanjuan and promised not to do it again, saying, "I'm sorry, I won't let you see this situation again!" I'll change it after eating! Juanjuan said, "I'm for your own good, if you work in another employer's house, people won't allow you to hang around in your pajamas, right?" "I had no choice but to express my understanding and apologize. This incident made me think deeply, as a domestic worker, I need to pay more attention to my appearance and image, not only to be diligent in my work, but also to pay attention to my image and demeanor in details. In this way, you can win the respect and recognition of your employer and your children. Therefore, I will pay more attention to my image and words and deeds, and strive to be perfect. Finally, Guixiang asked me to go to the garage to pick up my things, because Juanjuan's father came. This unexpected request also made me more attentive to the various things in the family. The image of a domestic worker is not only about work performance, but also about the details, so that employers and family members can feel our dedication and professionalism. This is also a kind of requirement and expectation for myself. Zhao Huiping's body stiffened, and she looked at Juanjuan, she looked relaxed, as if she didn't realize anything.
Zhao Huiping couldn't help but think of what Juanjuan's mother said before, Juanjuan's father didn't let them leave, and they secretly escaped in the middle of the night. Zhao Huiping sighed, knowing in her heart that the family's life was not so good, but it looked calm on the surface. She put down the things in her hand, walked to Juanjuan's side, and asked softly, "Juanjuan, are you going to **?" ”。Juanjuan replied in a low voice: "Let's go to grandma's house!" ”。Zhao Huiping frowned, is this another reason for Juanjuan to escape? She subconsciously looked at Juanjuan's father, his expression was calm, and there was nothing unusual. Zhao Huiping took a deep breath and decided that no matter what, she had to protect Juanjuan and her younger siblings. She walked to the door and said to Juanjuan's father, "Go back first, I'll take them to grandma's house!" ”。The man hesitated, then finally nodded and left. Zhao Huiping took her three children, got into a taxi, and went to Juanjuan's grandmother's house. At her grandmother's house, Zhao Huiping chatted with Juanjuan's grandmother for a long time and learned about the family's situation. It turned out that Juanjuan's father's matter had already had a great impact on the family, and Juanjuan's mother couldn't bear the blow, so she often got sick. And Juanjuan has also become more timid and sensitive because of this family's problems.
Zhao Huiping was very distressed by the family's situation, and she decided to do her best to help them. She took Juanjuan and her younger siblings to the hospital to see Juanjuan's mother. She explained to the doctor about Juanjuan's mother's condition and paid for the medical bills. In the hospital, Zhao Huiping also met Juanjuan's mother's other daughter, a small life, but was troubled by the family's problems. Zhao Huiping understood that the family needed more help, and she couldn't stop at medical bills. She decided to seek more resources in the community, including child psychologists and social workers. She also spoke to Juanjuan's parents, hoping that they would realize the seriousness of the problem and work together to solve it. After experiencing these things, Zhao Huiping's attention to family issues and children's mental health has become stronger. She decided to use her power to help more people in need. When I returned to Juanjuan's house, I heard Juanjuan's grandmother say gratefully: "Thank you, you are our lucky star!" Zhao Huiping felt a burst of encouragement. She understands that her actions are insignificant, but that society can be a better place if everyone can contribute a little.
Zhao Huiping decided to share this story with more people, hoping to draw more people's attention to family issues and children's mental health. End of article. There was a time when I was immersed in resentment towards others, as if it were a poison that I drank myself in the hope that those who cared about me would also feel the pain. However, slowly I realized that hatred for others is actually punishing myself. Whenever my heart is filled with resentment, I myself am the one who will be hurt in the end. Maybe you've had a similar experience, once immersed in resentment. However, we need to realize that resentment will only make ourselves more miserable without causing any substantial harm to others. As the saying goes, give people roses, and your hands will have a lingering fragrance. If we can let go of resentment and turn to love and tolerance towards others, we will feel more peace and joy. Perhaps everyone has their own story, their own pain and regret. However, when we punish others with resentment, we often end up hurting ourselves. Therefore, let's learn to let go of resentment and fill the void in our hearts with tolerance and love. In this way, we can truly attain liberation and allow ourselves to be truly liberated.