Attention!College students are indulging in "** fun" and can't extricate themselves
I was immersed in the joy of the game all day, and suddenly I looked up, only to find that my surroundings had been completely plunged into darkness, and my stomach was unconsciously making a "gurgling" sound.
Hey, man, do you want to go to the cafeteria?”
Forget it, I've already ordered takeout. The second child hugged the phone with both hands and replied without looking back.
And the boss is still asleep, like a snoring sound that shakes the sky, and has been reversed black and white for a long time.
The third child, staring intently at the computer screen, smirked non-stop, and his whole face was full of "aunt smile". This symptom has been going on for a long time, and since he became obsessed with a Korean variety show, he has been out of control, and it seems that he has a heart for a certain female star.
Watching dinner time slip away, I silently took out my phone and ordered a "fish-flavored shredded pork rice bowl".
It's really his grandmother's expensive, and she can't even afford to eat. ”
This is the daily life of our dormitory, and I think it is also the daily life of many college students. This short-lived happiness has a special name, called "** music".
And there are three main "music" for college students:
Mobile games, you can't stop driving all night. In general, the easier it is to quit a game, the healthier it is;On the contrary, the harder it is to quit, the less healthy it is.
There are a lot of popular mobile games, and almost all of them are overwhelming. Once you climb to the ** rank, you see that your roommate has climbed the diamond, and you are not to be outdone. So, immediately after, he asked the big guy to bring him and attack the king together. Team up all day long, even if you are in class, you can't help but discuss the game just now, such as complaining that Han Xin didn't steal the tower, otherwise he would have won a long time ago.
For college students, mobile games have become a kind of black hole from which they cannot extricate themselves. Without self-control, it's easy to swallow up all the time you didn't plan for. Losing interest in something other than the game would be a terrible situation.
In addition to mobile games, the popularity of short ** has also become another major pastime**. Once you start brushing short**, it's hard to stop. The idol boys in the short ** are handsome and compelling, and the girls are delicate and moving, always smiling at the screen. Countless kisses and hearts seem to pass through the screen to the heart. Their every move is heart-wrenching.
However, few people think about what these idols really look likeWhy is the background always distorted?What is their real purpose?Is it really writhing for you?Is it really a crush on you?Actually, they're neither, they're just chasing traffic, making money, and promoting products. They may be backed by the whole team, but you're still immersed in it. Although many college girls don't play games or get involved in love, they focus on indulging in "chasing dramas". Many college students chase various "idol" soap operas with computers or tablets all day long, and constantly follow all kinds of variety shows. In these "soap operas", they seem to transform into "heroines", completely immersed in the emotional ups and downs of the heroines, crying and laughing with them. College students are indulging in all kinds of "** fun", consuming what little leisure time they have. There are thousands of books in the library, but few have been borrowed in four years. Confused, lacking in planning, just living in the moment, living a monotonous life in dormitories, classrooms, and cafeterias, going to class, eating, playing games, and sleeping.
The symptoms of indulging in "** fun" are manifested as not studying hard, not thinking, and unwilling to face reality. Many students do not know what job they should pursue after graduation, whether they should go to graduate school or enter the public examination. Of course, not all college students are indulged in "** fun", and there are still many excellent students. However, the existence of "* music" makes it relatively easy to be "excellent", just be a little more diligent, work harder, and get up earlier than others, you may be able to achieve better grades, have a research qualification, enter graduate school, and get better job opportunities. So, it's not hard to excel in college, at least it's much easier than in high school. You just need to put in more effort than them, be more diligent, get up earlier, go to the study hall more often, and you may be able to get better grades and have more opportunities. So, how to avoid falling into "** music" and can't extricate yourself?Always be awake and don't go with the flow. College is capable of completely changing a person, and many students go from being positive in high school to becoming decadent and losing themselves in college. This is mainly due to the high degree of freedom in university life, the lack of norms at the high school level, and the lack of self-control and assertiveness, which is easy to be swayed by the surrounding trends. Therefore, to avoid following the "herd effect" and letting time be consumed by "** fun", it is necessary to stay sober, always know your goals, and do not blindly follow the trend. This is the first suggestion.
Give up "** fun" and think deeply. The second piece of advice to avoid falling into "** fun" is to maintain self-discipline. There are countless books in the library, but the number of times they have been borrowed in four years can be counted on one hand. Confused, lacking a plan, just living in the moment, living a three-point life in the dormitory, classroom, and cafeteria, going to class, eating, playing games, and sleeping.
Then, we need to think deeper. Whether it is in the face of social hotspots or social phenomena, we must not stay on the surface, let alone be swayed by others, but carefully the logic behind it. We should think about why things are the way they are, and why. This kind of deep thinking is extremely beneficial for our personal development.
In order to develop the ability to think deeply, we need to develop good habits of reading and writing. Reading and writing are the best ways to push us to think deeply. In this age of the internet, deep reading is becoming more and more difficult, and deep thinking is even more challenging, because the Internet is full of different opinions.
Therefore, we must strengthen in-depth reading, expand our knowledge, and expand the boundaries of thinking. It is only through extensive reading that we are able to maintain a deep thinking about things. In this process, we need to stay away from shallow information and focus on precipitation and accumulation of knowledge to cultivate our ability to think deeply. Such habits will help us to understand what is happening around us more comprehensively and deeply.
Writing is the best way to promote deep thinking, and only by putting ideas into words can you make the thinking in your head clearer and the logic more coherent. In the age of the internet, writing has become an essential skill.
It becomes increasingly difficult to develop a genuine hobby because our fragmented time is filled with all sorts of things. Open your phone, browse an app casually, and it will disappear in half a day. Therefore, cultivating a real hobby allows us to devote ourselves to it in our spare time and enjoy the fun of devoting ourselves to it.
At the same time, it has the potential to become a second career for yourself. In the process, not only can you get a sense of satisfaction, but you may also open up a new career path.
Career planning as early as possible is something that college students should seriously consider. Graduate school entrance examination, public entrance examination or direct employment, everyone needs to choose a path for their future in advance and prepare accordingly. If you choose employment, you can gain experience through internships;If you choose to take the postgraduate or public entrance examination, you need to plan a revision plan in advance.
That way, you won't graduate confused about where you want to go in the future. The four years of college will become more meaningful and a valuable stage for personal growth and professional development.
Above, I hope that every candidate can get rid of the "** fun" and enjoy a high-quality university life. Thank you for reading, and if you like the article, please like it!