How can rural people "mix well" in society and enjoy a better life?As a rural person, if you can meet the following five basic criteria, you will be able to live a prosperous life and feel that life is full of meaning.
1. There is a small western-style villa in the rural hometown
In the past, rural people mainly relied on farming and breeding to make a living, but nowadays, they go to the city to work to obtain more living resources. However, rural people do not forget their hometown, and when they earn enough money, they will choose to return to their hometown and build a small bungalow. This villa is their reward for their difficult life, and it is also the spiritual sustenance they have in the countryside. At the same time, the villa also showcases their success and status, making them shine in front of their relatives and friends.
2. Have a house in the city to live in while working
When rural people earn more money by working in the city, they will buy a commercial house suitable for the whole family. This not only facilitates their residence during the working period, but also provides a good educational environment for the children and better medical conditions for the elderly. The city became their home for a long time, which also marked their success and progress in life.
3. Marry a daughter-in-law and raise a cute child
Due to economic constraints, it was relatively difficult for rural people to marry and marry daughters-in-law in the past. But as they worked in the city, earned more money, improved their family's economic situation, and became easier to marry a wife and have children. Nowadays, rural people are increasingly concerned about quality of life, often having only one or at most two children. In this way, a couple who raise only one or two children will be able to take better care of and educate them without having to make life difficult due to too much financial pressure.
4. Buy a medium-sized car where you can see people
Before getting married, young people in rural areas usually buy a car of medium domestic level. And middle-aged people, after building a house in the countryside, began to work hard to earn money to buy a car. In this way, the car not only facilitates their travel, but also adds face to their relatives and friends. Owning a car also symbolizes the improvement of their family, living a better life, and reaching the sign of a well-off life.
5. Find a good job that is more stable and can support your family
After rural people earn money by working part-time, and have achieved the standards of small cottages, urban housing, marriage, and children, it becomes especially important to find a stable job. The job must be stable, pay moderately, and not be overworked. The best situation is to be able to enjoy perfect social security benefits, especially to be able to participate in the "five insurances and one housing fund" and have urban workers' pension insurance. Once they have paid the pension insurance for urban workers for 15 years, rural people will be able to enjoy the same pension treatment as urban retirees after retirement.
The way of life of rural people has changed dramatically. In the past, rural people relied mainly on agriculture to make a living, but now they are inclined to move to the cities to work to gain more resources and opportunities. In order to achieve a better life, rural families need to constantly strive for these five standards. They consider their hometown to be their home, but they are also willing to build another home in the city in order to work and live better.
Through part-time work, they were able to build small western-style villas in their hometowns, return to the place where they worked hard, enjoy the fruits of their labor, and show their success. Buying urban housing is not only convenient for work and life, but more importantly, it provides better education and medical resources for family members, and creates better development space for their next generation. Getting married, marrying a daughter-in-law and having children become the motivation for them to work hard and be happy. Buying a medium-sized car is not only convenient for getting around, but also symbolizes their success and wealth. A stable job, on the other hand, means a solid position in society and the ability to provide for a family.
The standards of rural households are constantly changing, and with the development of society and the difference of personal pursuits, people's definition of a good life is also constantly changing. In the past, rural people mainly engaged in farming, and the values and goals of life were relatively simple. However, with the advancement of modernization and urbanization, rural people have begun to pursue a broader space for development and a higher quality of life.
For me, having these five criteria not only represents the improvement of economic conditions, but also the embodiment of self-affirmation and a sense of achievement. These standards involve family, housing, affection, material enjoyment, career development and other aspects, and are a relatively complete life indicator. The effort and time required to meet these five standards is a huge challenge for rural people, who need to face various difficulties and pressures.
However, rural people also need to realize that the happiness of life comes not only from material satisfaction, but also from inner satisfaction and growth. In addition to the pursuit of material success, it is essential to advocate for the pursuit of inner peace, health, and happiness. Physical and mental health, good interpersonal relationships, and a positive and optimistic attitude are all important factors to measure the indicators of happiness in life.
Finally, I think everyone's definition of a good life is different, and these five criteria are relatively general indicators that don't apply to everyone. Everyone has their own unique pursuits and values, and should think and choose according to their own circumstances, and pursue happiness and development that suits them. Whether you are a rural or urban person, you should be based on your true self, stick to your beliefs, and pursue your dreams. Only then can we truly live a meaningful life.