Mo Yan said that real strength is not confrontation, but allowing it to happenRegret, stupidity, ugliness, hypocrisy are allowed, and no return is allowed for giving. When you allow all this, you will gradually become a soft, relaxed and stretched person.
Mo Yan, a Chinese Nobel laureate in literature, has depicted countless vivid stories in his pen, and at the same time, he also contains a profound philosophy of life in his stories. He once said: "True strength is not confrontation, but allowing it to happen." Regret, stupidity, ugliness, hypocrisy are allowed, and no return is allowed for giving. When you allow all this, you will gradually become a soft, relaxed and stretched person. "This is not only an attitude towards life, but also an inner strength.
1. Regret is allowed.
Life is unsatisfactory out of ten, and everyone has regrets. Regret can be missing an important opportunity, an irretrievable relationship, or a bad decision. However, regret is not the end of life, but the beginning of growth. When we allow regret to exist and accept its lessons, we can learn from it and grow into a more complete version of ourselves.
2. Allow stupidity.
Stupidity is perhaps a state that everyone cannot avoid. Sometimes we make ridiculous decisions, and sometimes we argue over trivial things. However, stupidity is not a sin, but an experience. When we allow our own stupidity, we can learn from it and become wiser.
3. Allow ugliness and hypocrisy.
The world is not as beautiful as we think, and ugliness and hypocrisy are also part of life. We can encounter deception, betrayal, and even malicious slander. However, when we allow these ugliness and hypocrisy to exist, we can become more aware of the true face of life, learn to protect ourselves, and learn to be tolerant and understanding.
Fourth, it is allowed to pay without return.
Giving doesn't always pay off, it's a normal part of life. Sometimes we give a lot and don't get the expected return;Sometimes we give a lot to others and don't get the gratitude we deserve. However, when we allow giving without return, we can understand more deeply that the meaning of giving is not what we get, but what we feel about inner satisfaction and growth.
Fifth, really powerful.
Mo Yan's "real strength" does not refer to muscle strength or material wealth, but to inner strength. When we allow regret, stupidity, ugliness, hypocrisy, and unrewarded efforts, our hearts become soft, relaxed, and stretched. This is because we have accepted the imperfections of life, and we have understood the impermanence and impermanence of life. Our hearts have become strong enough to accommodate the joys and sorrows of life, and to face the ups and downs of life.
Life is like a book with unpredictable endings, and each of us is the author of this book. When we allow everything in life to happen, we take control of our lives. We are no longer people who are pushed by life, but people who can take charge of our own lives. This is what Mo Yan called "really powerful". Let's all learn to allow it to happen!Only in this way can we become a person who is soft and relaxed at heart, and a truly strong person.