On December 15, according to online news, a woman in Wuhan City, Hubei Province, encountered an unpleasant experience during a blind date. Since the conversation between the two parties was not speculative, the woman was sneered at by the man, saying that "no one wants". Such an evaluation caused the woman's self-esteem to suffer a serious blow and her mood became very low. Surprisingly, the next day the woman felt severe pain in her neck, and after going to the hospital for examination, the doctor told her that her thyroid gland needed surgery**, so the woman was admitted to the hospital.
After learning the news, the man felt quite guilty, so he took a carton of milk to the hospital to visit the woman. However, the two had an argument in the hospital and communication with each other was not smooth. In the end, the man picked up the milk and left, which was surprising. Some people say that men can't communicate and are too disrespectful, while others say that women are too hypocritical and glassy.
The incident sparked discussions about blind dates, communication, and respect. First of all, as a traditional way of marriage and love, although blind date can help single people expand their circle of friends to a certain extent, there are also many problems. In this incident, the two parties clashed at the first meeting because the conversation was not speculative, exposing the possible pressure and discomfort in the blind date process. Therefore, it is crucial for singles to choose the right blind date method and mentality.
Secondly, communication is the foundation of interpersonal communication. In this incident, the man brought milk to the condolences after the woman was hospitalized, showing a certain amount of concern and guilt. However, an argument ensued between the two parties at the hospital, which eventually led to the man leaving. This shows that in the face of conflict and disagreement, how to communicate effectively to resolve conflicts is crucial. In addition, respect for others is also a prerequisite for communication. Whether it is the man's evaluation of the woman or the woman's interpretation of the man's behavior, it reflects the lack of respect for each other in the blind date process.
Finally, this incident is also a reminder that mental health is just as important. The woman was depressed after being ridiculed, which eventually led to thyroid disease. This suggests that psychological stress can have an impact on our physical health. Therefore, it is crucial to maintain a good mental state when facing setbacks and stresses in life.
In short, this unpleasant experience during the blind date process sparked a discussion about blind dates, communication, and respect. It is hoped that the majority of single people can be more rational when choosing blind date methods and mentality, and at the same time learn to communicate effectively and respect others to create a harmonious social atmosphere.