First of all, in the Avengers, there is a very important point, that is, your mentality and everything have been adjusted, but it does not mean that the other party is also adjusted to meet you at this time.
You can only say that after a period of disconnection, the other party's negative feelings towards you have subsided, and to what extent, you can't **, so what you do in the reunion may not necessarily guarantee immediate results.
Then I will make an analysis of the various situations in the Avengers today, and you can refer to it and then combine it with practical application.
The first scenario is that the other party will reply to your message
At this time, we don't really have to care too much about whether the other party's message is enthusiastic or coldAs long as we can reply, we all know that it's a good thing.
At this time, the ultimate goal of our communication with the other party is to make the invitation successful. That's right, I'm talking about the success of the invitation, not the success of your success.
Because you want to be able to talk about reunion just by chatting, it's not impossible, but the probability is not large, and the more logical and safe plan is to reach the invitation step first.
My suggestion is that if the other party is not particularly disgusted with you, you can even invite directly to compress this part of the time. Because many exes are no longer particularly disgusted with you after you have been disconnected for so long, it is very likely that you will succeed in the invitation if you invite you as a legitimate friend.
The requirement here is to judge accurately, and don't use it indiscriminately if you are not sure.
Then it's time to get to the topic of dating, which I mentioned in my previous content, so I won't repeat it here.
In the second case, the other party does not reply to your message;
In this case, there is a high probability that the other party still has negative emotions towards you, but this negative emotion is not as big as it was at the beginning, but I just read your message and don't reply.
In this case, it is recommended that you can use the help-seeking type of reconnection, this method is to ask the other party to help with something within your ability, this thing should be simple, and the other party can really help.
I'll give you another piece of advice here, that is, if you feel that your ex's reply is relatively cold, as if there is nothing to talk about after chatting about helping,You divide the things you want to help into three stages in advance, ask once every two or three days, ask three times, and observe the changes in the process.
Generally, after you ask like this, you will evacuate immediately, do not hesitate. In this way, the other party's resistance to you will be easier to eliminate, which will be more conducive to the advancement of your subsequent relationship.
The third case is to block and delete you;
In this case, it is recommended that you use the method of chance encounter, and the point of special attention to the way of chance encounter is natural, do not deliberately, do not worry. Create a relaxed meeting atmosphere, simply chat a few words, and changetaNegative impressions of you, look for opportunities to add *** in them
But in real life, some people have no way to create a chance encounter with each other, and the recommended method here is to write to the other party.
You can write the content of the letter according to the three aspects I said:
The first point is to accept the fact of the breakupThe most important thing is to understand the other party's decision to break up;
The second point is to apologizeBecause your previous actions may have hurt the other person;
The third point is to share the story of your disconnection during this timeIt's best to share something interesting that can spark the curiosity of the other person. At the same time, you should also mention that they are more than welcome to add back friends.
If you find that the other party doesn't add you when you meet by chance, and the other party doesn't add you when you write a letter, you also have to rememberYou can take the initiative to add it at most once, and if the other party does not agree, don't take the initiative to add it again.
Finally, the Avengers is just a step in your recovery, not that the Avengers will definitely be able to help you get back together.
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