I have a friend who is an influencer.
Recently, I asked him in person for advice on the secrets of being an Internet celebrity.
He said that it is very simple, whether you can become an Internet celebrity mainly depends on two points:
One, see if the person has first-class energy。This energy is not only about physical strength, but also about the energy of work, the efficiency of doing things, you see those who are leaders, entrepreneurs, are workaholics, really love this job, work is more important than anything else.
When they are doing things, they devote themselves to more than ten hours a day, and they can do it for months, or years, or even decades. And ordinary people, generally insist on three or five days and can't stand it, they can't support it physically, and they want to give up mentally at any time.
When you always put one thing first, thinking that this thing is bigger than the sky, more important than eating and sleeping, and as important as breathing, and if you don't do this well, you can't sleep today anyway, you're halfway there.
Second, see if the person has a first-class desire to share。It's that I know a good thing, one thing, I want to tell you, if I don't express it, I'm going to be very uncomfortable, and I can't sleep.
I know a blogger who posts more than 30 Weibo posts every day, every day, every year, tens of thousands of Weibo posts a year, and over the past few years, the Weibo text he posted adds up to more than 10 million words.
It's the same with being a live broadcast anchor, the excellent anchors I know usually like to talk, if you ignore her, she can nag endlessly, if you talk a little, she can happily talk to you for hours, without this talent, basically can't be an anchor.
Not everything is achieved with a will, and what is more important than hard work is to find out whether you are a piece of material before working hard. Choose one thing to do in the field you are familiar with and good at, as long as you work hard enough, there is a high probability that you can do it;And in a field that I am not familiar with or good at, I just do it myself because I see others making money, and it is basically difficult to do it no matter how hard I try.
You can observe carefully, those who are in the early stage of starting a business, who do not arrive at the company before 8 o'clock in the morning, go back before 8 o'clock in the evening, have two days off on weekends, and have holidays on holidays, it is impossible to get things done.
Why?Because it's not that easy to make money.
Making money is one of the hardest things in this world.
Because there are billions of people around the world, basically everyone wants to make money, the competition is extremely fierce, the competition in the shopping mall is the same as the cruelty of the competition on the battlefield, and it is impossible for people who do not have the determination to fight to the death with the enemy and the ambition and action to win.
Andy Grove, the founder of Intel, wrote a book called "Only Paranoid People Can Survive", and he was right that only those who have a very strong desire and will go crazy if they don't do it can succeed.
Desire produces motivation, people with strong desire can have strong motivation, people with strong motivation can go far, and it is impossible for people of Buddhism to achieve anything. Buddhists can only maintain the status quo or go with the flow.
I've seen too many people who have succeeded, and I've seen many more people who have failed.
All successful people have three characteristics in common:
One, you know very clearly what you want to do;
Second, I worked very hard and did my best, and there were no holidays;
Three, hold on long enough.
All those who fail are the opposite, but also have three common characteristics:
One, I don't know what I want to do, and I will do what I see others doing to make money;
Second, I don't work hard, I can't work for a few hours a day, and I want to rest on weekends and holidays
Three, stick to it for a few days and don't see the desired effect, so you give up.
The truth in the world is simple: you have to put in extraordinary effort in order for you to achieve extraordinary success.
The greatest pain of human beings is the inability to bridge the gap between "knowing" and "doing".
So, a lot of times, people are not afraid to tell you the secret of success, because they know that even if they tell you, you may not be able to understand it, and even if you do, you basically can't do it.
Ordinary people will only nag every day like Xianglin's sister-in-law: Why do I understand the truth, but I still can't live this life?