My name is Li Yong, I am 28 years old this year, I have been married to my wife Wang Fang for 3 years, and I have a daughter, Li Nan. I work as a salesman in a foreign company, with a monthly salary of more than 10,000 yuan, and my life is okay. I have always had a good relationship with Fangfang, we have a daughter, and we are also harmonious and beautiful.
Until recently, Fangfang's mother had liver cancer and needed surgery. Our family is not wealthy, and the cost of the operation is as high as 300,000 yuan, so we can only pay 100,000 yuan in advance, which is 130,000 yuan short. Fangfang asked me to cancel the deposit and sell the wedding car I bought for her, and I could only agree, after all, it was my mother's life.
Yongyong, I know that we are financially strapped right now, but my mother's surgery is really imminent. We can only sell my bridal car, can you understand me? Fangfang looked at me with tears in her eyes.
Okay, Fangfang, I'll listen to you. Your mother's surgery is the most important, the car is only temporarily transferred, and when the economic conditions are better in the future, I will definitely buy you another better one. I comforted Fangfang softly, but my heart was very uncomfortable.
After Fangfang's mother got cancer, our family fell into a difficult financial situation. Fangfang's father died of a sudden cerebral hemorrhage last year, and the family now only relies on Fangfang's meager income from going to work to make ends meet. Fangfang's younger brother was still in college, and her mother, the backbone, fell ill all of a sudden, and the family suddenly couldn't afford such a high medical bill.
I discussed with Fangfang that we could pay a deposit of 100,000 yuan first, and then rely on the loan to make up the rest of the expenses. But we had just gotten married, we didn't have any savings, and the bank didn't dare to lend us money. This is a big difficulty for young couples who have just entered society.
Watching Fang Fang hand over the car keys to me with red eyes, I felt very uncomfortable. The thought of saying goodbye to the car that had accompanied us through our wedding days made my nose sour.
Yongyong, I'm sorry to make you so sad. I'll find a way to make money and buy you a better car. Fangfang saw that I was depressed, and tears welled up again.
Silly girl, don't cry, it's not your fault. A car is a car, and the most important thing is that your mom can get through this safely. We'll get through it and make up for it when the time comes. I hugged Fangfang tightly and comforted her softly.
I called my mother and told her about the situation. My mother advised me to be considerate of Fangfang and not to complain. "Son, people have to face all kinds of difficulties in their lives, you and Fangfang are still young, and we must support each other to get through the difficulties in order to go long. Money is just something outside the body, and it is not worth mentioning compared to the health of your family. "Mom's words made me look away a little.
The deposit for the operation was paid, and Fangfang's mother could soon start preparing for the operation. With the rest of the money, we plan to mortgage the house and pay off the medical bills first. After discussing with Fangfang, we decided to mortgage our small house with my parents' house and borrow 500,000 yuan for my mother's surgery and future care. This is undoubtedly a big risk for us, and the monthly mortgage pressure will be very high in the future. But for now, this is the only way, and the parents also agreed to help after negotiations.
The night before the surgery, I worked overtime until late before I went home. As soon as the door opened, Fangfang hurriedly came over to support me: "Yongyong, I have something important to tell you!" She looked very serious, and I quickly sat her down and asked her what was the matter.
Fang Fang breathed a sigh of relief, looked at me and said, "Yongyong, my mother's condition has deteriorated, and the doctor said after re-examination today that if you don't have surgery, you won't live for 3 months." So anyway, I'm going to have surgery tomorrow! But the hospital informed us today that only half of the deposit can be refunded, and the other half will be used as an advance payment for the operation. We now have 80,000 yuan in hand, so my mother can't have surgery. ”
After hearing this, my whole person was simply broken, and the little family that Fangfang and I had built with great difficulty was now facing disintegration because of this damn reality. I really feel sorry for Fangfang, and it's hard to accept the divorce from her. But seeing that time was tight and Fangfang's mother's life was in danger at any time, I finally nodded: "Okay, we'll go through the formalities tomorrow." It's important to save people, we can get a divorce first. ”
I'm sorry Yongyong, but I made you so sad again. When mom's surgery is over, I'll definitely try to get you back. Fangfang couldn't stop wiping her tears while packing up the divorce materials.
I was very distressed, and hurriedly went over and hugged her: "Don't do this, we can't help it, it's not your fault." Saving people is important, and the matter of money will be talked about later. ”
After the surgery, I sat outside the operating room with mixed feelings. We were legally married yesterday, and today we are going to face separation. Thinking that I won't be able to live with Fangfang like before in the future, I can't help but redden.
At this moment, a familiar figure appeared at the door. I looked up and saw my father standing outside the door, also with exhaustion and worry on his face.
Son, you're in too much of a hurry. Why don't you come to us first and discuss it, and you have to go to the step of divorce? My father sighed and sat down beside me.
I choked up and told my father about my experiences these days. After hearing this, my father was silent for a long time before he said slowly: "You and Fangfang have always had a good relationship, I see it in my eyes." Now that you are willing to divorce in order to save people, I can understand your distress, but I also hope that you will think twice. I have discussed it with your mother, no matter what, I will try my best to make up for Fangfang's mother's surgery fee, and you don't need a divorce. ”
When I heard this, I was speechless with emotion. It turned out that my parents had been silently caring for us, and I was too self-righteous. "Dad, thank you! I'm going to find Fang Fang right now and tell her the good news! ”
When Fangfang heard that her parents were willing to help, tears welled up in her eyes. She cried and apologized to her in-laws, but her parents persuaded her gently, making us husband and wife grateful. In the end, with the help of her parents, Fangfang's mother successfully completed **, and we did not embark on the step of divorce.
I learned a lot from this. As a son, I can't just take care of my own small family, but also consult with my parents. As a husband, I should work hand in hand with my wife to tide over difficulties and not take them lightly. Thanks to the support of our parents, we have re-established our confidence in facing difficult situations.
After this series of ups and downs, my relationship with Fangfang has become stronger.