There is a colleague who lives in the school district, and more importantly, the rich family, that is, a happy family with a mine at home, and there is never the trouble of lack of money. has a daughter, who has always grown up immersed in a prestigious school. I smiled and asked my colleague if my daughter's grades were very good and whether she had entered the key classes of prestigious schools. My colleague looked at me and said casually, "Why do you have to go to the key class?"The children's grades are not good enough, the school Xi is very hard, and we still push the children to key classes, don't we push our children into the fire pit to roast?At that time, the child will have problems both mentally and physically. ”
Looking at the sincere gaze of my colleague, I knew that my colleague didn't say big things, he just said from the bottom of his heart that only a wise parent can have, that is, we must accept the mediocrity of our children!Not all children can become the top of the pyramid, and the vast majority of children will eventually live like most ordinary people. If we just blindly force our children to learn and Xi, force our children to progress, force our children to enter key classes, and force our children to enter prestigious universities, such a life is a perfect life.
Will our children live a very hard, tired and tired life?No one is perfect, and there is no pure gold. Everyone has their own strengths and characteristics. It's the same with our children. If the child really can't read and can't improve his grades, why can't we accept the mediocrity of our child with a tolerant heart?As long as our children have the correct outlook, good moral character, and physical and mental health, I think that Xi grades are just the icing on the cake.
Of course, no matter what you say, reading is always the easiest shortcut for our children to succeed. But from another perspective and another role, if our children put in enough effort, they still can't reach the other side of success. Then just laugh it off, as long as you have hard-working hands, you will always find a stage to realize the value of your life. Calm down, stabilize emotions, accept the mediocrity of our children, mortal glimmers, still strong, optimistic and bright!