Mo Yan said: The way to make the vicious dog stop biting you is not to feed the dog to please you, nor to avoid it, but to have a stick in your left hand and a knife in your right hand.
This sentence may sound violent, but we do need to have such courage and guts when facing injustice and bullying, especially when encountering someone like a vicious dog.
In life, we often encounter some unpleasant things and unkind people. Just like vicious dogs, they may bite you for no reason.
On the road of life, we will inevitably encounter some unsatisfactory things and encounter some people who are difficult to walk with.
The more I experience, the more I understand that there is no need to expose a person when I see a person clearly, and there is no need to turn my face when I hate a person.
The way to stop these vicious dogs from biting us is not by feeding them to please or avoiding them.
Instead, we need to find a way to get along with it. The most effective way to deal with it is to ignore these two words.
01: When you encounter bad people and bad things, don't pay attention to them.
In real life, when encountering bad people and bad things, it is best to ignore them, and when you encounter a "bad dog", it is not to please, not to avoid, but to face and deal with it.
When a gust of wind blows, all you need to do is pat the dust off your body, turn around and walk away.
Whether in life or work, we have all dealt with things like vicious dogs.
At work, colleagues secretly stumble, so that our work is not done well, and we are criticized and blamed by the leader.
In life, because of the small things in front of you, you will toss and turn, fidget, and make big mistakes.
It has been said, "It is not the mountains in the distance that make a man tired, but a grain of sand in his shoes." ”
Bad people and bad things are the sand in our shoes, and these can upset us.
Covering up the good times that should have belonged to us, so don't get too entangled in bad people and bad things.
It is most disturbing to encounter "vicious dogs" like rotten people, these people have dark hearts, their lives are unsatisfactory, and their hearts are unbalanced.
If you do, once you get entangled with it, he will make you unable to get out, and they will deliberately provoke you and vent the bad emotions of the rotten person.
Bad things can also drain your time and energy, make you angry, confuse your mind, and thus, put you in agony.
When encountering bad people and bad things, remember not to entangle with them, otherwise, the more entangled the more troublesome it will be, stop losses in time, and take the opportunity to stay away.
02: Don't punish yourself for other people's mistakes.
In life, no matter how cautious you are in your words and deeds, it is inevitable that you will not encounter a few bad people, and it is inevitable that you will not experience a few bad things.
On the road of life, it is common to encounter bad people and bad things.
Some people always hold on to their mistakes, punish themselves with the mistakes of others, and make themselves tired.
Some people ignore these rotten people and bad things, and they are calm and comfortable no matter how bad people go crazy.
We can't just dwell on the wrong things, and in the end we will only gain more than we lose.
In the face of bad people and bad things, you must have an indifferent and comfortable attitude, don't worry about them, and don't easily turn you into the person you hate the most.
He is strong by him, and the breeze blows the hills;He is crossed by him, and the bright moon shines on the river.
Therefore, when encountering a rotten person like a "vicious dog", the best way is to be silent and ignore it.
Silence is the most powerful counterattack, and if you try your best to refute it, you will only make yourself physically and mentally exhausted and difficult to get out.
The more you argue, the more you don't help, and the argument will only waste your tongue, consume time, and even lower your level.
In this world, there are all kinds of bad people who want to bite us like "evil dogs".
If you hate rotten people, the best way is to work hard to improve yourself and make yourself excellent.
We strive to improve ourselves, but we don't give them the opportunity to come into contact with ourselves.
At the same time, be sure not to punish yourself for the mistakes of others.
Sometimes we can't help but ask: what should we do when we encounter a "vicious dog" like a villain pestering us?
As Mo Yan said: With a stick in his left hand and a knife in his right hand, he hurt him hard at one time.
The villain chooses to seek advantages and avoid disadvantages in doing things, and the reason why he peets you is because he despises you in his heart, looks down on you, and thinks that you are a bully.
Therefore, you have to teach him a good lesson, let him know how good you are, and he will not dare to bully you easily in the future.
In life, if you encounter bad people and bad things, don't be exhaustive, don't be obsessed, don't entangle, stop losses in time, and stay away as soon as possible.
The most important thing is to improve your own energy and give yourself the confidence to fight against bad people and bad things.
Of course, when we encounter a vicious dog-like problem, in addition to a good education, we can't just feed the dog to please or avoid it.
Instead, we need to learn to get along with them, understand them for what they are, and keep a normal mindset and act positively to resolve them.
I believe that with the right approach and a positive attitude, we will eventually be able to stop the vicious dog from biting us and enjoy a good life.
The rest of your life is expensive, please don't waste it.
Stay away from those rotten people and bad things, don't be reluctant, don't flatter.
May all people of the same frequency in the world meet here. I'm Uncle Hui, thank you for reading.