Love at first sight or love over time, which is more reliable
In the world of love, it is possible to fall in love at first sight and for a long time. Both of these situations have their own characteristics and possibilities, and it is not easy to say which is more reliable.
Love at first sight usually refers to two people who have a strong emotional resonance when they meet for the first time. This often happens because both parties have similarities in some way, or see their own shadow in some traits of the other person. This resonance may lead to a deep affection for both parties quickly, but the reliability of this relationship depends on whether both parties truly understand each other. If the two parties only develop feelings because of similarities in appearance, temperament, etc., without in-depth understanding of each other's inner world, then this relationship may gradually fade over time.
Long-term love refers to the gradual development of feelings between two people in the process of getting along. This usually happens because both parties gradually discover each other's strengths and traits in a long-term relationship, resulting in affection. The reliability of this relationship is relatively high, as both parties have passed the test of time. However, long-term love also has its limitations, because the relationship between the two parties is based on long-term relationship and understanding, and if there are large differences in some aspects or different values between the two parties, it may lead to problems in the relationship.
Therefore, from the perspective of reliability, both love at first sight and love over time have their own characteristics and possibilities. In either case, both parties need to understand each other deeply, respect each other's feelings and opinions, and establish a healthy, equal and stable relationship.
Of course, in either case, we should respect our feelings and not force ourselves into a relationship because of external pressure or **. Only when you truly understand each other and are willing to give your heart to each other can you establish a healthy, stable and long-term relationship.