As people reach middle age, the pace of life seems to gradually become simpler. No longer pursue complicated material comforts, but pay more attention to inner peace and tranquility. This kind of simple life is a wise choice for middle-aged people.
Acceptance is the primary attitude of middle-aged people towards life. They no longer complain about the injustice of fate, but accept everything in life calmly. Whether it is good times or bad, they can face them with peace of mind. Because they know that the road of life is full of ups and downs, and only by learning to accept it can they move forward better.
Output is another way for middle-aged people to live. They are no longer just passively accepting the baptism of life, but actively exporting their own value. Whether it's work, Xi or socializing, they can participate with a positive attitude. Because they understand that only through output can they better realize their own value.
Screening is a kind of wisdom in middle-aged people's interpersonal relationships. They no longer blindly make friends, but do so selectively. They will screen out those who are like-minded with them and can grow together, and stay away from those who only consume their own energy. Because they know that only through screening can they find true friends and partners.
Not educating is a kind of wisdom in interpersonal communication for middle-aged people. They no longer try to change the thoughts and behaviors of others, but respect the choices of others. They will influence others through their actions, rather than changing them through education. Because they understand that everyone has their own growth trajectory, and only through their own efforts to influence others can they truly achieve mutual growth.
The simple life of middle age is a wise choice. It teaches us to receive, export, sift through and not to educate. This lifestyle allows us to focus more on what really matters and allows us to better enjoy the good things in life.