Author, calm fox.Figure, network. May you find deep affection in my words in the ordinary years!Thanks for your attention!
Write at the beginning:
For a long time, many people, would think:
Women in their teens, twenties, is the age of crazy love, a little older, is immersed in firewood, rice, oil and salt, seems to be enjoying the warmth of the family, and the heart is a little "restless", and when they are old, they are surrounded by children and grandchildren, bringing grandchildren for their children, even if it is hard, they are very happy.
But,A woman's way of living in this life has almost nothing to do with her age.
What you want to live depends only on the path you choose for yourself at the momentWhat kind of life you want to have only comes from whether you are tired and want to live a different way.
So much for. Love is a kind of enjoyment, or a kind of high-level enjoyment.
And life, for a woman, she can also be the same as a man, not only enjoy the backing given by the family, but also have what she wants to have.
Even if you are seventy or eighty, you can make your life colorful and forever gorgeous.
Because, a person who knows love, the beauty of a heavy snow, the romance of listening to the rain under the eaves, and the ...... of a pleasant conversationcan make her feel the arrival of beauty.
She will have these three things in her body, making her more and more beautiful.
What is "Qinghuan", probably like slowly sipping a cup of light tea, tasting not only the fragrance, but also the sweetness of the aftertaste.
Watched a documentary.
Early in the morning on weekends, women go to the morning market to buy fresh ingredients, and all kinds of cries in the morning market are endless, exuding a strong atmosphere of life.
In winter, the weather is cold, and the room is warm.
She is in the kitchen, washes the ingredients, then puts them in a casserole, turns on a low heat, and slowly boils.
The movements are gentle and slow, but free and easy, as if this process, she only enjoys this kind of process that can be used to unleash her imagination, and does not need others to cheer her on, this is her home field.
Then, playing games with the child, nesting with her lover, she reads a book, the man swipes his mobile phone, occasionally says a few words, the child is doing homework, and she is wearing headphones to listen to the song alone, or looking out the window at the ice and snow in a daze.
The emotional outpouring is never strong for women, but should be simple and indifferent, a joy that others can't see, and a "pure joy" that she can feel herself.
It can not only nourish the body, but also penetrate the soul, and spend leisure and elegance in ordinary pleasure and beauty.
After all, a thought of flowers blooming, a thought of flowers falling, everything, is determined by your heart.
A few days ago, I received a picture scroll sent from afar: a cold plum, in the corner of the wall, silently blooming, the flowers bloom brightly, and the surrounding snow, complement each other, making people happy.
I was busy taking it to frame, because it was snowing, and there were few people in the store, and the shopkeeper said: I thought it would not open, but I thought you would come.
The worldly life will always bring some small surprises from time to time, bringing many happy fragments to life.
The proximity between people mostly comes from having similar preferences and temperaments, and this emotion lies in being able to see each other's wisdom, patience, and more importantly, to be able to perceive the inner strength of the other party and the fragrance of the soul.
Whether it is between friends, family, or lovers, the love that comes from this.
Because of sincerity, it will be sincere, and because of sincerity, it will make the relationship more solid.
A woman who lives a sober life, in her heart, will have a tree, firmly rooted in the ground, and then bloom her own flowers, so that meeting or missing is the best arrangement in life.
Life, sometimes, is like a mundane rosary, 108 beads, each bead has its own unique meaning.
And to live is to carefully touch each rosary in ordinary life, to know the meaning of its existence, and to find its guidance for our lives.
A woman's sobriety lies in being able to distinguish which is more important, and to be able to find the joy and peace of mind of life, happiness and longevity.
A woman lives beautifully because she can conscientiously implement the plan she should make for herself;When she enjoys life, she can live a relaxed and comfortable life.
Make a list and find the direction of your happiness.
For example, go home on the weekend to see your parents, have a meal with them, talk about family life, and talk about work;
For example, you can take time out regularly to spend time with your children, stay away from utilitarianism, and enjoy parent-child time
For example, I can arrange some trips every year, or with my family, or with my girlfriends, so that my spirit can be sublimated and I can see more
For example, you and your lover often take a walk together, run and run, climb the mountain and do sports, step on each other's shadows, smell the flowers and plants on the roadside, and say the intimate words of two people;
For example, exercise a few times a week, find some delicious food hidden in the alley, drink tea and chat with girlfriends, and share happy things ......
Life is full of novelty and joy.
The more you can experience life, the more you can see through many truths, and the more you can set a lofty pattern, so that no dust will fall in your heart.
Calm fox, advice for you:
In this world, there are no gods.
However, we can live a little more "fairy".
Elegance and vulgarity, beauty and ugliness, bitterness and happiness, black and white, are never distinct.
A woman's life is even more so.
Exquisite and exquisite, exaggerated and exaggerated, simple and simple "music" ......As long as you find self-consistency, you will live your beauty.
Leisurely years, no Chinese life.
A woman's wisdom is to be able to enjoy life at all times, to be able to have an understanding, and to always be simple and mellow in her bones. List of high-quality authors
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