"I dug and dug and dug in the little garden.
Guarding himself like a jade and being loyal, he dug wild vegetables for 18 years for a promise, lived in a cold kiln for 18 years, and finally waited for the man (with his concubine) to go home, but after being a wife for 18 days again, he let Xian.
When he was young, Wang Baochuan, who was dressed in fine clothes and jade food in "Xue Rengui and Wang Baochuan", did not hesitate to sever the father-daughter relationship with his father three times and vowed to marry a beggar and be a beggar's wife.
Now it seems to be just an absurd story.
Du Shi Niang, the top geisha in the treasure chest, followed her lover Li Jia, thinking that his family background was innocent, but she didn't know that he was a coward who had no ability to rely on his family, and was resold to a rich businessman by him in the dark to make the difference. The true feelings of the Qinglou woman were tragically betrayed, and her true heart was thrown to the ground and crushed.
borrowed 800,000 yuan for her boyfriend, lived together unmarried and gave birth to two babies, but she didn't expect her boyfriend to lose contact. An engineer who graduated from a prestigious university, with high IQ, high education, and good looks, she was confused when she came to love, and in both relationships, she put herself in the dust, blindly giving, but in the end she ended up with no bones. I was beaten 36 times in 4 years, and I still don't want to let go. The house's house was a bungalow with bricks and wooden planks, and he was abused for 7 years.
Love brain, how can there be a fluke?
The love brain is a kind of love-first thinking mode, hormones on the brain, and people who put all their energy and thoughts on love and lovers as soon as they fall in love.
For the sake of love, you can break with your family, you can give all your hard-earned money, you can gamble on your future, as long as you have a name and a man's heart.
What did they get?Scribbled ending, sighing.
In fact, whoever they marry, or no one at all, has a much better fate than the man they stick to.
The dangers of the love brain, needless to say. Losing oneself is small, and ruining one's life is big.
So what kind of woman would fall into a love brain?
There is no money, no pursuit, no happiness, there is a lot of inner drama, and the original family lacks love.
In the period of passionate love, the need to be loved has been solved, I feel that I am "seen", and there is a person who is full of myself, and my psychology has been greatly satisfied.
This wonderful feeling is addictive. In order to maintain this happiness, there is only constant investment in the later stage. Delusional desire to gain a man's affirmation through his wishful thinking.
And this kind of payment is often an unbearable burden, and it is a game and a dream that is not fair.
The more time you give to your partner, the less time you give to your friends. The love brain will lose its normal social interaction and will become a lonely person. The authorities are fascinated by bystanders, but you are the one who can't wake up.
Comforting friends who are in love is the worst, after comforting, the two of them are reunited, and the friends are not people inside and out. And many of them successfully got married under the repeated persuasion of friends.
The object of the love brain doesn't seem to be so good, but they can't do without it, what do they like?
In fact, they are clear-headed and know how to get out of the status quo, but they choose to continue because maintaining the status quo can bring benefits, such as being able to blame themselves for being vulnerable and complaining, feeling that they should be comforted and favored, and that others will give something because of sympathy.
Love is sacred, and when the flesh is undecided, blindly seeking to vent desires in the name of false love is just a low-threshold comfort.
Women who are serious about making money, have enough control over their lives, and can enjoy the benefits and nourishment that money brings, and enjoy the sense of fulfillment through self-fulfillment, do not bother at this unequal love at all.