What is the biggest calamity for middle-aged people?
Personally, I think that the biggest catastrophe in middle age is between life and death, some people die of illness at 40-60, but there are too many people in this age group, my husband of a female leader in Beijing died in his sleep, it is said to be a heart attack, he was only 56 when he died, and he has not even started to receive a pension, if he is still alive, he can now receive a pension, at least more than 10,000 a month. My friend's father is a traditional Chinese medicine doctor in the county hospital, he died at the age of 51 in 2004, died of liver cancer, and helped a lot of poor people before his death, and his family was also very poor, so he borrowed a lot of money for cancer treatment (not borrowed by relatives, it was his father's former patient, you 100 yuan, I lent 200 to his father), after his father's death, his family fell into the middle of the road, graduated from high school, and her mother did a lot of hard work to pay off her debts after graduating from high school and college, and his college living expenses were all supported by relatives. If his father had lived, he would have been at the dean level long ago.
Netizen 1:
You see, the big family you mentioned, all counting on him alone, suppressed to death.
Netizen 2:
Your son knows how to comfort you at this time, he is very caring, and he will become a pillar in the future. Best wishes!
Netizen 3:
How do you feel that she will repeatedly get seriously ill because she puts negative energy in her heart, maybe she will be better for her body when she vents.
Netizen 4:
Good guy, is this woman still human?
Netizen 5:
I think most people will not quit their jobs if they have a job as a civil servant, probably you have better economic conditions than others, and you can still choose to study at the age of 30, and you can still have money to live after treatment. It's like that high-altitude female worker, who has to go to work if she is sick or not.
Netizen 6:
The catastrophe of middle-aged people is not that their parents are sick, but that they are sick, and it is expected that middle-aged parents are sick, and their own illness is to hit the family from the root.
Netizen 7:
Zhang Ailing said that middle-aged people wake up every morning and find that they have no one to rely on, but they are surrounded by people to rely on!
Netizen 8:
When I saw my grandmother crying to find my father, I cried. In fact, it is not bad that you can find a job in the local area, and you can take care of your grandmother close to it. You're still young after all. Don't think about it, life is hard, come on!
Netizen 9:
When the disease does come, money is of the essence.
Netizen 10:
It's a pity that I understood too late, I didn't study hard enough when I was a child, I got a salary of more than 3,000 a month until I was 38 years old, and I only had less than 100,000 savings in my hands, and I don't dare to get sick now. I'm afraid of the situation you said, my family is sick and I don't have money for treatment.
The above is the sharing of netizens, the biggest disaster for middle-aged people is that they have no money for treatment, or for themselves or their families. Money is worthless compared to health, but health needs money to protect, and sadly some middle-aged people lose both at the same time.
The above is the sharing of netizens, what do you think about this?Welcome to leave a message in the comment area to discuss.