As the saying goes, there is great hope, as great is disappointment. This old saying is a profound reflection of the disappointment that can come with expecting too much. Especially in marital relationships, high expectations can often be one of the causes of family disharmony. Therefore, if you lower your expectations for your lover, you will be able to complain less in your heart, and your family will be more harmonious.
Many people mistakenly think that marriage is an umbrella to protect themselves from the wind and rain, but in the end, they find that only they can protect themselves most truly. Life is very long, and the world is impermanent, so when facing the ups and downs of life, you have to rely on yourself. Lowering expectations of your lover will not only reduce disappointment, but also improve your own happiness.
When facing the trivial things in life, less complaining and less comparing is the key to maintaining a good attitude. If you have done something in the past, don't regret and complain. If you make a mistake, learn a lesson, and never make mistakes again in the future, because the world is impermanent, and there is no perfect reason for everything.
People often ignore their own actual economic conditions and compare the lives of other people's families. However, different people have different economic conditions, and what suits them is the best. In the heart, we must learn to be more than what is lacking than what is below, lower our requirements, and be content. The more desires there are, the easier it is to expose weaknesses and the more unhappy they are.
Marriage is a long and ordinary road. No matter who you live with, you will eventually live with yourself. Keep a good mindset and don't be too yourself, the ordinariness and boredom in marriage are also part of it. Lower expectations, don't be envious, contentment can always be happy. On the road to marriage, maintaining a good attitude and learning to lower expectations is a kind of wisdom to achieve happiness. Although the road to marriage is long, it is done and cherished, and the little bits and pieces of beauty are felt with your heart.
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