Understanding human nature is an important skill we need to master in life. Human nature is complex, everyone has their own way of thinking and acting, and "fighting" is a common manifestation in human nature. In many cases, people get caught up in fights for various reasons, which not only have a negative impact on themselves, but also affect those around them.
First, realize that fighting is not the best way to solve problems. When faced with problems, we should adopt a calm, rational and constructive attitude to solve problems through communication and cooperation. Attacking, blaming, or provoking will not solve the problem, but will make it worse.
Second, learn to control your emotions. Fights are often triggered by emotional out-of-control, so when faced with conflict, we need to calm down, control our emotions, and not let our emotions dictate our behavior. Only by staying calm can we think better about problems and find solutions to them.
Also, be respectful of other people's views and feelings. Everyone has their own thoughts and feelings, and we should respect their opinions and feelings, and not easily deny or attack their ideas. It is only through mutual respect and understanding that more harmonious interpersonal relationships can be built.
Finally, be clear about your goals and values. In the face of struggle, we need to be clear about our goals and values, and not give up our principles and values for the sake of short-term victories. Only by sticking to one's principles and values can one keep a clear head and the right direction in the struggle.
In short, read human nature and don't be kidnapped by "fighting". We should adopt a calm, rational and constructive attitude to face problems, learn to control our emotions, respect the views and feelings of others, and stick to our own principles and values. Only in this way can we better cope with various challenges and difficulties in life.