In recent years, the status of women has been greatly improved, their self-awareness is getting stronger and stronger, for unhappy marriages, many women no longer tolerate, after all, marriage is a matter of two people, one person's pay and forbearance, will not be exchanged for another person's change and cherish. Therefore, divorce among women has gradually become common, but different women have different attitudes and subsequent life trajectories when faced with this choice. Zhang Ziyi is a good example. She encountered a lot of unhappiness in her marriage, but after choosing to divorce, she did not fall into despair and self-blame, but faced life with a relaxed and natural mentality, which is why she was able to maintain her mental outlook all the time.
This attitude may seem irresponsible and irresponsible to some people, but from another point of view, it is also a manifestation of responsibility and responsibility for oneself. After all, after a person is hurt, it is very crucial to choose how to face and ** himself. However, not all women can face life after divorce as easily as Zhang Ziyi. Some women may be stuck in the emotional quagmire all the time and cannot extricate themselves, some women may lose themselves and cannot find their own direction, and some women may choose to go against the grain and silently bear the hurt of marriage, which is unhealthy and undesirable.
Therefore, it is very important for women to face and deal with their emotional state after choosing to divorce. First of all, accept your inner emotions and don't suppress and deny your feelings. Secondly, find suitable ways to vent and ** your own emotions. For example, you can talk to a friend or a professional psychologist, or you can relieve your inner stress and anxiety by exercising, reading, etc. Finally, we must learn to let go, let go of the pain and regrets of the past, and focus on the future life planning and goal realization, so that we can truly get rid of the shadow of marriage and welcome a better life.
In short, female divorce is a normal social phenomenon, but when facing life after divorce, women need to have a positive, healthy and mature attitude to deal with it, in order to truly find their own direction on the road of life and realize their self-worth.