Have you ever thought that your child might be bullied at school and be afraid to talk to you?He may go to school every day with fear and pain, and you know nothing. They suffer in silence in their hearts, hoping that it will go away on its own. However, once the bullying starts, it doesn't go away on its own, it only gradually worsens, causing deeper damage to the child. Are you ready to uncover this hidden truth and protect your child from further harm?
School bullying is a serious problem, once a child is bullied, not only will his self-esteem be greatly hit, but even leave a serious psychological shadow, which will have a permanent impact on him, and this impact will even be a lifetime, and we must take it seriously.
First of all, we need to identify whether what is happening to your child is bullying or not.
Bullying often includes verbal or physical aggression, rejection, isolation, threats, malicious rumors, etc. It's understandable if there are occasional verbal or even physical altercations over conflicts, but if someone persistently and unreasonably behaves towards your child, it can be considered bullying.
If it is found that the child has indeed been bullied, the child is vulnerable at this time, and the parents must come forward.
The first thing to do is to collect and sort out as much evidence as possible, if there is no evidence, it is impossible to tell with just one mouth, and if the other party does not admit you, there is no way at all. The evidence can be injuries on the child's body, facts from the mouths of other classmates, or school surveillance footage.
Then the parents should report to the child's homeroom teacher, if it can be solved the best, but under normal circumstances, the teacher only criticizes the education of the person involved, and it is difficult to play a big role. Therefore, parents should negotiate with the teacher and call the parents of the other student to the school, and the three parties will solve the problem together.
If the other parent has a good attitude of admitting his mistake and promises to discipline his child and not make the same mistake again in the future, then we should not let the matter further expand, after all, they are all in the same school, and it is best to get along peacefully.
If the parents of the children do not recognize their own problems, but think that we are making a fuss, then we should not be polite, this kind of thing will have a second time for the first time, and it must be resolutely stopped.
We can clearly tell each other that you are called school bullying, which is an illegal and criminal behavior that the state severely cracks down, and your child has already broken the law, do you know? We plan to report to the Education Bureau and call 110 to report the case, and when the Education Bureau personnel and the police come, they will characterize this incident as school bullying, and your child will be punished by the law, even if it is a minor, there will be corresponding legal punishment, and there will be a bad criminal record. Hearing this, it is estimated that the other party will definitely not be so arrogant anymore, and most people will take the initiative to admit their mistakes. Of course, we don't mean to scare people, if the other party just doesn't solve it, then we can only really do it. If the other party agrees to negotiate a settlement, then we will ask the child to publicly apologize in front of the whole class and issue a letter of guarantee that he will not make the same mistake in the future. During the apology process, let the other person stand on the podium and speak loudly so that the whole class can hear. During the whole process, we have to show our due aura, so that the other party feels that we are not easy to bully, so that he will not dare to bully us again in the future.
After the above processing, there is a high probability that the problem will be solved.
Of course, the above practice is also a last resort. The best case scenario is not to have this kind of bullying happening.
As parents, we need to teach our children more self-protection skills.
Teach your child not to go alone in remote, unsupervised places, especially at night or when alone. These places can be potentially dangerous.
Teach your child not to carry valuables with them such as cell phones, wallets, jewelry, etc. These items may attract the attention of others and become a target for bullies.
Encourage your child to act with friends on campus, especially between classes or after school. Acting alone is an easy target for bullies.
At the same time, tell your child that in case of bullying, try to stay calm and not be swayed by emotions when being bullied.
Bullies often use insulting remarks to hurt others. The child should not respond to these remarks as this will only make the bully more crazy.
Try to avoid physical confrontation with the bully, but try to find opportunities to leave the scene and tell the parent to deal with it as soon as they return.
These strategies can help children protect themselves in the face of bullying.
Finally, it is hoped that schools, families, society and other parties can work together to strengthen the fight against and prevention of school bullying, and provide a safe and healthy environment for every student to grow up.