With the annual graduation season just around the corner, this should be the busiest time for all students who are about to leave school.
Students in the third year of junior high school and senior high school who are preparing for the entrance examination are going all out to meet the challenges of the high school entrance examination and the college entrance examination. For them, this is not only a test of academic outcomes, but also an important test related to their future academic path.
College seniors are similarly busy. Some students are still immersed in internships, while others have already started to prepare for graduation** and defense, and some students are planning for the future in advance and actively submitting their resumes, looking forward to successful employment after graduation.
At this stage, the happiest students are likely to belong to their freshman and sophomore years. They have already experienced the hard work of middle and high school, but they have not yet entered the stressful period of junior and senior years after college, and they still have a period of time for entertainment and hobbies, and they are bathing in the best stage of life.
The college student posted a chat record with his parents, which was accused of being "real" and interesting. Some netizens commented: The record reflects a strong family affection, although not too much. Especially for those students who have just entered university, because they are younger, they do not need to think too much about the direction of their life development, so they can devote more attention to cultivating hobbies and improving their comprehensive ability.
In addition, many university campuses now have a variety of club activities, so that students can make like-minded friends, and it seems that there are almost no other troubles in life except for dealing with "living expenses".
However, since university life is often the first time that many students live independently in the true sense, it is inevitable that they will not be able to grasp the calculation of living expenses, and they may encounter spending overruns every month.
At the end of each month, students often struggle to ask their parents for living expenses. However, many parents nowadays are also quite "savvy" and do not mean that students will be generous as soon as they ask. A college student posted a chat record with his parents, which caused everyone to laugh. Some netizens jokingly said: Although there is a bit of family affection, it is not much.
For example, the mother of one of the students asked in a message if the child's recent living expenses were sufficient. The student thought it was a concerned greeting from his mother, and was moved to say that it was enough to spend. However, the mother responded, "That's good, I sent you the shopping link, you can help me place an order." The content of the chat seemed very real, which made many netizens cry and laugh.
Another college student posted a chat with his mother. Originally, he was going to subtly ask for an increase in living expenses, so he used a roundabout tactic to indicate that he was ready to quit smoking. However, my mother's response was unexpected: "Draw more and live a few years less to save money." After watching it, many netizens expressed that it was too humorous, describing mother's love as gushing like a mudslide.
In addition, a college student asked her mother to increase her living expenses, only to find a surprising change in her family's financial situation. It turned out that my mother had already increased the living expenses for students, but my father quietly withheld them. If it weren't for the student's initiative to ask, it might be difficult to find out about this situation until graduation, which is really laughable.
When many netizens saw this kind of conversation record, they said: "It seems that some of the little secrets of parents are connected." ”
Analysis: In fact, sometimes it is not that parents are unwilling to give students living expenses, but because of the limited ability to manage living expenses, the monthly living expenses are always insufficient, and parents need to continue to subsidize them.
Another situation is that students rarely contact their parents after they go to college and only remember their parents when they are short of money, which leads many parents to be dissatisfied with this behavior of students. Therefore, such conversations also remind students that there are many aspects that need to be considered holistically in addition to academic performance when they go to college.
During their time at university, students should improve their comprehensive skills. When you go to university, you need to not only improve your academic performance, but also focus on the cultivation of all-round ability, which is one of the reasons why there are a variety of activities in the university.
If students want to improve their future career prospects, they should actively participate in the selection of class leaders in the freshman year, especially the positions of class president and secretary of the Youth League are worthy of students' candidacy. After being successfully elected, students will have more opportunities to communicate with their supervisors, and lay a certain foundation for participating in the election of party members or fighting for research places in the future.
For students who intend to be admitted to the civil service or graduate school after graduation, as well as students who plan to participate in the selection and transfer of students, participating in the election of party organizations is a key step, which can improve the success rate of the civil service examination, graduate school, and establishment in the future.
Of course, in addition to the above-mentioned aspects, students also need to develop a good sense of money and values. After agreeing with the parents on the amount of living expenses, you should maintain control over your spending, not always overspending, and be considerate of your parents' contributions.
It is also necessary to understand the situation of students, because prices vary greatly from city to city, and many students are not extravagant and wasteful, but the cost of living may still be insufficient, so parents should also be more understanding.
Today's topic: Do you have similar chat logs with your parents?
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