Tonight (December 23) "If You Are Honest, Do Not Disturb", a male guest proposed that love needs "praise communication", which won the unanimous approval of everyone, and the three teachers also suggested that everyone must learn to express their emotions warmly and positively in love. Another male guest's emotional experience is more unique, "We have upgraded from 'rice pairs' to lovers, but unfortunately we did not break through the long-term pairing mode, punch-card greetings, and perfunctory communication, and finally broke up." The three teachers said: "Hitchhiker" and lovers are essentially different, and love must require deep emotional communication. 
Love needs "praise communication" Learn to express emotions warmly and positivelyThe male guest Yue Jinsong is a dance studio partner and Latin dance teacher who has won the World National Standard Championship. In the classroom, he has a unique "boasting teaching mode", and he also feels the need for "praise communication" in love, "If two people praise each other with their hearts, the more they praise each other, the faster the relationship will heat up, and they will get along more harmoniously." ”
At the scene, Yue Jinsong shared his emotional experience, "First love taught me a lot, and I learned that I must give each other more praise and encouragement and more warm expressions in love." She once permed her hair, what do you think of my hair today?It looks a little fried!It's rude for you to say that, and I'll be unhappy. Since then, when I see her dressed, I will praise her with all my heart;She was unwell once, and I said that if she was not feeling well, she should rest, and she said that what I need now is your company. Since then, every time she gets sick, I will take action to care for her. We have been in love and growing up, but when she graduates, she wants to go back to her hometown to work, and we have no choice but to break up. There is an "Aronson effect" in psychology: a person becomes positive as praise and rewards increase, but conversely, becomes negative as praise and rewards decrease. The three teachers said: The same is true of love, praising the other half is an ability to guide love to happiness, and praise, encouragement and support between lovers are important nutrients for love to keep fresh. The two praise and appreciate each other, so that love will not be overwhelmed by firewood, rice, oil and salt. If you only see each other's shortcomings, the more you look at each other, the more unpleasant it becomes, and you will slowly lose patience and consume each other's feelings;If you often empathize and compare your heart to your heart, what the two see is the future and hope, and even if there are contradictions, the differences will eventually be offset by the power of tenderness. I hope that everyone must have more warm and positive expressions in love, so that the relationship can be stable and long-lasting. The female guests Qu Meng and Mei Ruiying insisted on leaving the lamp to the end, and Qu Meng even partnered with the male guests to show Latin dance, "I learned Latin dance in the Children's Palace when I was in elementary school, and it was the first time I danced with a boy!."However, everyone praised: "Although there is no rehearsal at all, it is very tacit!.""Who will Yue Jinsong's heartbeat girl be?Who will he end up holding hands with?
Love refuses to "tie up mode", love is a deep emotional exchange, male guest Long Xu is a radio host, but also a competition enthusiast, "innovation and entrepreneurship, English speech, advertising art......I have participated in various competitions, and I used to be ashamed of competition, and I was afraid that others would think that I was too utilitarian, but now I think that wanting to win is not something that needs to be hidden, and the pursuit of excellence is the right of each of us. On the weekends, I'm a jack of all trades, setting up a stall in the park, writing tweets, and training ...... eloquenceI enjoy experiencing a variety of part-time jobs and constantly enriching myself. In my spare time, I like to play the guitar, listen to old songs, watch old dramas, and hope to share the good time of relaxation and warmth with you in the future. Long Xu's emotional experience is very special, "My last relationship started with joining a 'rice team', at first we were a harmonious five-person group, and then it became a four-person group and a two-person group, I had more and more contact with her, and I was also used to each other's company, and slowly came together." After more than half a year of love, we didn't seem to break through the previous pairing mode, punch-in greetings, and perfunctory communication, and we did a lot of things together but did not have deep emotional exchanges, and finally broke up. "Rice Pairing", "Game Pairing", "Travel Pairing", "Sports Pairing" ......The role of "hitchhiker" is now more popular with some young people, who do not have to be accompanied at all times and do not need to be too involved in each other's lives, and have become a way to accompany each other without spending time and energy to manage and meet their psychological needs. Female guest Mao Huidie said: "I think that a partner is a partner, a lover is a lover, before falling in love, you may have a partner for walking and chatting, but after falling in love, you must avoid these, otherwise it will make people feel very insecure." The three teachers also spoke: lovers, friends, "partners", these three identities are actually decreasing in intimate relationships, "partner" itself is a bit utilitarian-oriented, "partner" in the early stage is to say that I want to eat lack of people, you want to eat to be accompanied by someone, the purpose is very obvious, not emotional. The difference between "hitchhiking" and lovers, the most important thing is that the needs are different, lovers need two people's love and support for each other, which is a deep emotional exchange;"Hitchhiker" may just be one thing for you to accompany me, and I don't need you to interfere too much in my life in other aspects. Long Xu also said: "I now understand that the so-called "hitchhiker" is more of an instrumental companionship, but it is necessary to have someone to accompany you to do something, but lovers need emotional connection. I hope that you will be cheerful and confident in the future, and we will be able to face the ups and downs together and grow together. "In the end, will he be able to hold hands?At 20:30 tonight (December 23), please pay attention to Jiangsu Satellite TV's "Do Not Disturb If You Are Honest". 