In ancient times, there was a huge disparity between the status of men and women, and women were often involuntary and their fate was manipulated by others. It is incomprehensible that many of them end up as servants of others, and even when their husbands and wives share a bed, the maids have to be kept by the side.
So, this leads to the question: the maid is guarding by the bedside, and the husband and wife really don't feel embarrassed?
In past societies, women's freedom was very limited. Many women, especially those from poor families, may be sold or become servants of noble sons.
This was because the socio-cultural background at that time led to the restriction of people's thoughts, which caused serious violations of women's rights and freedoms.
In ancient times, women had a low status and men could buy and sell as they pleased. If a woman's parents in the family want to resist, but powerful people threaten them and may even kill or injure others in the family.
In such a situation, the woman has no choice but to succumb to this injustice.
The life of the maids is full of constraints, and their duty is to serve the men, and only by performing well can they be appreciated by the men, so as to improve the living conditions in the family and avoid starvation and bullying.
However, if they fail to win the hearts of their masters, their lives will fall into despair.
Not only do they face the threat of starvation, but they also endure relentless abuse, some of whom choose to end their own lives, and those who survive will face a miserable life.
In this environment, their status is low, and they may even become slaves of their families, no one is willing to lend a hand, and their road to help is full of difficulties and dangers.
At that time, as maids, their lives were often neglected, and their families chose to stand by for fear of power or petty profits. However, the fate of some of the maids in the room is very different, so let's move on**.
In ancient times, the status of maids was not equal, and some maids were only responsible for daily chores and lived an ordinary life. The maids in the house are different, they have a relatively high status, and they can accompany their owners through the day and night, and are responsible for daily life.
In addition, their responsibilities are not only to take care of the master's daily chores, but also to teach the master how to enter the ** work, as well as to check the master's fertility. It's a bit of a surprise indeed!
Most of these maids are women's dowry maids, or the maids that men themselves fancie, and are selected as maids in the room. Sometimes, the woman will also take the initiative to send a personal maid to serve the man.
This kind of behavior is really difficult for us modern people to accept and recognize. We prefer to find a partner who can grow old together, rather than generously sending others to our own partner.
In ancient times, maids would have sex with men before they got married, as a rehearsal for the man on his wedding night and to ensure the man's physical condition. This was considered normal at the time.
In order to ensure that the man does not make a fool of himself on the night of the cave after the marriage, or is found to be infertile, the woman's family is usually reluctant. In addition, men's reputations can be tarnished.
Even when it is **, the maid will be by the side to guide and educate the man at any time.
If you want to ask them if they are embarrassed, the answer is undoubtedly embarrassing, but this is the duty of the maid. Maybe you've watched "The Legend of Mi Yue", Mi Yue went to Qin as her sister's dowry maid, but there, she was more favored than her sister.
The elder sister has a hatred for a man, which eventually leads to the two breaking up unhappily and the sisterhood breakdown. In the late Spring and Autumn Period, women began to bring maids as dowries when they got married.
However, this begs the question: won't the bride-in-waiting be promoted for this?
Although high-ranking maids often have involuntary bodies and are in danger of being sold or executed at any time, there are still some smart and clever maids who are not willing to be manipulated by others and choose to oppose customers.
They rely on their own scheming, good at observing words and feelings, and win the love of their masters. Once they succeed in attracting the attention of their masters, their chance to turn over will come.
In order to gain power in a male-dominated society, some women may choose to use their beauty and means to get close to men, such as using ** to make men lose their resistance and thus achieve their own goals.
However, such behavior is unethical and can easily lead to serious consequences. In the pursuit of power and status, we should adhere to justice and morality, and strive for it in an honest and hard-working way, rather than through improper means to achieve our goals.
In ancient times, men had a lot of power, but they were also very concerned about their reputation. If such a thing gets out, it is very detrimental to them, so they usually choose to keep a low profile.
However, for some of the more sophisticated women, they do not need to use these tricks, they only need to rely on their beauty to attract the favor of their masters, and thus become concubines.
In the ancient TV series "The Legend of Zhen Huan", Zhen Huan's personal maid Huanbi successfully became the side blessing of King Guojun with her intelligence and beauty, although the final ending was not satisfactory, she still realized her wish.
However, modern society and culture have been developing and changing, and the role of the maid has long been gone.
In modern society, gender equality has been deeply rooted in the hearts of the people, and everyone should have the right to choose their own life and future. Women are equally capable of doing what men can do, and even excel in many fields to create their own brilliant careers.