In the general perception, the age of 36 is a brilliant period for women with both mature charm and a fruitful career and family, and many women who marry later may even still enjoy a single life. However, for Wang Lili, who is from Guizhou, this age marks her becoming a young grandmother. Holding her grandson in her arms, her face showed a helpless expression, "My youth has quietly faded away. ”
Wang Lili, a woman born in the 80s, started a love journey with her future husband in junior high school in her early years, and due to an unexpected pregnancy, she chose to drop out of high school and enter the palace of marriage. When she was 17 years old, her son was born. Fortunately, her husband has always taken good care of her over the years, so she has no regrets despite her early marriage. However, the couple's academic performance was not satisfactory, and this trait seems to have been passed on to their son, who chose to work in a factory after graduating from junior high school.
Wang Lili originally thought that since her son had failed to make achievements in his studies, it would be a good choice to learn a trade in a factory, at least better than loitering outside. The son worked hard in the factory and not only learned the trade, but also met a girl. However, he did not inform his family about the incident in time and did not reveal the truth until the girl became pregnant. When the girl's family learned about it, they did not object, but asked them to get married as soon as possible. So, Wang Lili's son got married and welcomed their child the following year, making Wang Lili a grandmother at the age of 36.
Once, Wang Lili enjoyed a free life, and as her son grew up**, she could go shopping and get together with her girlfriends as she wanted. However, now that she has a little life in her life that needs to be taken care of at all times, freedom has become out of reach. In the face of such a change, Wang Lili couldn't help but feel helpless and sighed that her youth ended in such a hurry.
In this regard, some netizens said that in their area, it is not uncommon to become a grandmother before the age of 40, which is nothing new. Some netizens also mentioned that they are still single at the age of 36, in contrast, Wang Lili's speed can be described as fast. However, more people believe that everyone has their own choice of path, whether it is early or late marriage, there are advantages and disadvantages, and we have no right to judge the lives of others.
Youth is short and beautiful, and life is different. Everyone has a choice to choose on their own path in life, and the key is to find a lifestyle that suits them and work tirelessly to achieve it. Regardless of the success of our careers or the warmth of our families, we should cherish the happiness in front of us and not give up our dreams and pursuits easily. After all, there is no fixed pattern in life, only self-realization and inner satisfaction are the most important.