Blind date, commonly known as meeting, is a custom of Chinese folk marriage customs.
In ancient times, folk blind dates for men and women, in addition to being held at the woman's or man's home, would also hold the so-called "secret meeting" at the market and temple fair. According to a folklore expert, the form of "stealing a meeting" is very interesting, and under normal circumstances, both men and women are brought to the market or temple fair by the matchmaker or their parents, and the matchmaker points to each other from a distance across the crowd, so that both parties can glance at each other, which is considered to complete the ritual of "stealing a meeting".
The folklore expert went on to say that this form of blind date of "meeting secretly" will have many drawbacks, the biggest of which is that even if one party has physical defects or other problems, the other party cannot see it. In this case, it is possible for one party to be "pitted".
However, with the development of society, the form of blind date between men and women has changed a lot, and today's blind date for men and women will allow men and women to get in close contact and talk, and when the two feel that they are suitable for each other, the two will get along again;On the contrary, when the two feel that they are not suitable for each other, the two go their separate ways. It should be said that today's form of blind date between men and women is still very scientific!
A senior netizen said that in principle, a blind date is a very grand occasion, even if some men and women usually have this or that problem, but they will be more restrained when they go on a blind date, so as not to be criticized by the other party. However, there will always be some people, even when they are on a blind date, they will not hide their faults, which will cause the other party to feel uncomfortable.
In fact, this senior netizen's statement is still very reasonable. No, somewhere in Anhui, the performance of the girl Sun on a blind date surprised her blind date!
So, what's going on here?
Next, let's talk about it.
Liu, a 28-year-old man this year, has not found a partner, and Liu's parents are very anxious about this.
In Liu's neighboring village, there is a very famous matchmaker He. It is said that He once held the line and built bridges for more than 100 pairs of men and women, and basically succeeded.
In order to enable Liu to get off the list as soon as possible, Liu's parents found the matchmaker He and asked her to introduce a partner to Liu.
Don't talk about it yet. This matchmaker He is really capable, and a month after Liu's parents found her, she really introduced a partner to Liu, Sun.
According to rural customs, the object needs to go on a blind date. Originally, Liu's parents planned to let Sun come to their home to have a look, but Sun said that she had been too lazy to move recently, so it was better to let Liu go directly to her home for a blind date. So, the matchmaker He took Liu to Sun's house.
Sun is still quite beautiful and has a very cheerful personality. However, during the conversation between Sun and Liu, he kept holding a cigarette, and he would take two puffs at every turn.
Liu was quite surprised by Sun's behavior, so he asked Sun if he had a habit of smoking. When Sun saw Liu asking her questions, he replied bluntly: "I don't like to carry it on my back, I'm a straightforward person." I'll tell you the truth!I used to have a husband, but because he committed an accident and was in prison, I separated from him and found another partner. Think about it, with your own financial strength, can you afford to support me?If we can, we'll talk, and if we can't, we'll end it as soon as possible. Anyway, I love to smoke, and just smoking costs more than 100 yuan a day!”
When Liu heard Sun say this, he replied embarrassedly: "I can't afford it." So, the blind date between Liu and Sun ended here.
The above is a general process of this event.
When many netizens learned about this incident, netizens started a heated discussion.
Netizen years are like songs: Such a woman is not affordable by ordinary people. Smoking alone costs more than 100 yuan a day, how many men in the world can afford to support this kind of woman!
Netizens are surging in spring: Sun is also straightforward enough, and people said that they used to be the eldest brother's woman. People don't hide it, they should give people praise.