"Miss Pear gets along with herself".
White-brand. There was a period of time when I was in a very poor state, absent-minded at work, monotonous, boring, and worthless. All kinds of emotions are mixed together, and the internal friction is so bad that I often cry inexplicably on the way to work.
One of the questions that often popped into my mind during that time was: Why are other people so happy?What do you have to do to be happy?
After reading this book, I seem to have found the answer.
Just like the sentence on the cover: Life has nothing to do with others, it is a self-to-self redemption.
Some of the points that made me feel empowered:
What makes most people suffer is the "both." Again.
But the moon is rarely round, and most of the time, we have to appreciate a moon that is not round.
There is no such thing as meaning in human life, meaning is only a placebo created by human beings. Without it, people will realize that life is barren, absurd, and has to endure a lot of pain for no reason, which is unbearable. But with the basket of meaning, one can put everything that one has borne into it, escape the fear of nothingness, and bring oneself a sense of security.
Time, people always understand life in terms of the axis of time, so the future has become the proposition that people care about the most in their lives. People care more about the outcome of life than about the whole life.
Pure life doesn't need so much, I don't need anyone to give me affirmation, I don't need anyone to give me recognition, I don't need anyone to rely on, when I don't need all this anymore, I have the strength to defend a whole and free soul.
Not everything has to have a specific definition, a harsh logic. Its existence is itself an expression, and when you accept it objectively, it is the deepest communication.
When I read this book, I calmed down, as if I was having a self-conversation, nodding my head frantically through the text countless times, and the questions that had bothered me for a long time seemed to be being disintegrated little by little.
I think this is the charm of psychological books, there is no strong concept invasion, listen like a friend, tell the story, and unconsciously put people **.